How would you answer this question? Here's how I reply:
“What turns you on?”
“Hearing you describe how toxic masculinity hurts women."
"What turns you on?"
"Not this question."
@Julie808 nails it.
A simple answer could be "Not someone stupid and vulgar enough to ask the question you just did." combined with "I'll be leaving now."
I would reply by hitting the "next" button. No fair in trying to cheat out of the natural discovery. Spend time with a person and see what "turn ons" you share, quietly honestly and genuinely. Not going to get a real answer with with a cold question like that.
Perfectly stated.
Not men who ask me intimate questions like what turns me on?
Intelligent Conversation, a kind personality, acceptance of each other and the faults of each other, a genuinely cheerful smile, a good sense of humour that allows for each other to be themselves humour-wise ( especially since mine can often be quite Risque, Bawdy, etc, etc,) NOT seeing the other person as clay awaiting to be re-modeled AND NO religion/religious affiliations in particular.
Maybe it's kind of clumsy and lazy to ask a question like that. If you really want to know what turns someone on, I think it's a matter of taking all the time it takes to know well that person, to be a good listener, to have some empathy, to make sure the mood and the chemistry is right.