Totally agree...give me something I can respond to, keep the ball rolling. Even better, make me laugh

Show you read her profile by asking about something in her profile or photos.

I figure if a man cannot muster cogent thoughts and write a personal message, there's not much going on between his ears. Personally, I think having a brain is a good idea.

Of course. Women want to be appreciated for who they are. Most cis hetero men are attracted by appearance, so many only check out the photos-instead of reading the profiles- for the youngest, prettiest female they can find, and their goal is sex, not to "get to know" her likes, interests, etc.

It depends upon the site. However, generally speaking. manners and a polite intro go much further than a superficial remark about your looks or age. If they've taken the time to read and remark about something in a profile, then THAT may be dignified with a response.

Nobody likes a phony compliment. Be genuine. Discover the common interests and shared life experiences.

I wouldnt know, no one ever messeges me, hahaha

Determine if they are who they say they are.

It's honestly so easier in person. Being able to read body language plays such a big role imo. I realllly hate trying to messege anyone first, never really know what to say ? feels awkward.

If they start out with "you are sexy", I'm out.

Pardon me...Can I read your shirt in Braille...I'm Blind!

I don't care for 'lines'; It's akin to talking to a customer service rep, who's job is dependent on saying specific catch phrases and call lines. Each time you hear it, you know it is rehearsed and fake - making the speaker fake as well.

No lines (just like Edna said 'no capes'

My fiance was attracted because of a single "hello!" And subsequent conversation.

I remember back in 60s as a young teenager I went up to a girl at a dance, who was little older and quite attractive and I leaned toward her and said 'your sexy, I'd love to get into your pants' she gave me a dead pan look and said 'no thanks, one arshole in here is enough'. I was left slack jawed and looking for a rock to crawl under.

Sooo... I guess you are not from Tennessee, are not wearing "space pants" and you do know the weight of a full grown polar bear ??
Kidding?

I'm not sure what a good opening line would be. I've not received any responses to my opening messages. I usually say hi & comment on their interests listed in their profile or perhaps something they've posted. Perhaps I should just end each opening message with a photo of my rooster & say something like sorry for the unsolicited cock shot but isn't he pretty." (Edited to correct typo)

How much for a happy ending?

Some questions are doomed to be asked again.

On another dating site I got a message saying "I'll show you my library if you show me yours" and that was a great opener. I had another who made a geologic joke, randomly, and I was more apt to respond.

Neither worked out, but the BEST way to get me talking is more off the cuff humorous things and less "hey your sexy I'm in love wit dem eyes bby"

Especially since it says right there in my profile "I don't have sexual desire"

None

Excusez mois, avais-vous un poupon gris?

The opening line that has overwhelming worked for me is "Hi"

My love for you is like diarrhea, I just can't hold it in!

Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again.

Totally agree with your take on it. I like to know that someone is responding to my profile and not just looking at my photos. It's a dead giveaway when in my post I have said something like "Trump supporters need not contact me" and some Trumpet sends me a message that says "I think we have a lot in common"

I like when a man sends me a message, anything. I check his profile and if I might be interested I respond. I generally don't initiate the conversation.