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What is the most underrated way people show you they love you? What is the most overrated?

Elsantoasauro 5 Apr 26
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I’m very Alan Wattsian: I’ve been up. I’ve been down. I can’t expect anyone to stay awake all the time. And I can’t expect anyone to do the right thing all the time. The fact that we’re all around proves to me that the good, for the most part, prevails over the bad. Therefore, many people overrate their goodness and underrate their badness or viceversa, according to whatever they allow to lead them away from whatever it is that makes things better.

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I love hearing from friends. I think it’s very underrated to get a phone call or visit. We’ve lost something so personal by always texting or messaging. I think extravagant gifts are overrated because we just don’t need any more stuff. Give me you or your time.

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Underated....Presents. Overated....Inexpensive Presents! ?

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Underrated: Acts of kindness without being asked for or expected.
Overrated: Gifts coming from people where it feels like they're trying to "buy" my love.

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Its just a another day in the office

Rosh Level 7 Apr 26, 2018
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underrated is I'll pray for you,which is nothing.overrated is conditional love,i love you if you do this.

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My best friend Amy sends me nude videos of herself. That's love. Lol

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It is an oxymoron for me...I was not loved (they never showed approval or affection) by my parents therefore, I avoided them and would find any attempt at closeness (beyond childhood years), to be a source of annoyance. It should be noted that I am a high-functioning Aspberger's Syndrome person. As an Aspberger's I view affectionate gestures as insincere attempts at manipulation.

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Overrated.... Christmas gifts and birthday gifts
Underrated.... buying me stuff you thought i might need. Ive got so much stuff. Geeze!

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This is hard one for me to answer. Underrated or overrated is still a form or expression of Love.

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Overrated: Meaningless gifts.
Underrated: Clean house, listening and remembering important details, being active in my life, being adventerous.

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Over - gifts
Under - listening, holding hands

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Under - simply letting me know your thinking about me
Over - obligatory holiday gifts (v-day, etc.)

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The ❤️ Emoji and “thoughts and prayers” is the most overrated.
Being there everyday for the little things in life is the most underrated.

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Underrated: a clean house
Overrated: flowers at work.

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Hello how are u doing, My name is gloria oduro

Random. But hello.

Hi!

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Underrated... Many of the day-to-day sorts of things. Allowing me to have and express needs...encouraging it, in fact. Opening up. Ignoring a text or phone call for a conversation that isn't anything critical. Spending time.

Overrated... Well, I see some people on Facebook glorifying jealousy, possessiveness, and the like; none of that is healthy. I'd say spending money, but there is something really nice about someone insisting they pay this time. Posting all about your love on Facebook seems more boastful than loving.

But, really, each love should be nurtured as it needs, not as anyone says it should be.

Yes love is real ..

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Asking how I am and actually listening open heartly
Saying if I was physically & mentally more stable I could have been so much more successful & been anything I wanted to be

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