I found an adult website on my son's computer in history. Is that normal at their age? He is 14 years old. I don't think he's mature enough to look at it.
Of course it's okay. And I agree with those who have already written this. It's worth talking about! Absolutely. 14 is the most appropriate age to start. I don't consider myself a good counselor, but my parents used to talk to me and tell me about old hentai, something like this tamil sex video . Heh. It sounds funny now, but it wasn't very funny to me then. By the way, I've started liking hentai ever since, lol
Boys start trying to look as soon as they realize who they are interested in. He probably just got a little sloppy in covering his tracks. Have you talked to him about sex? Do you have regular discussion about relationships? or do you just snoop and hope to catch him?
Your points are very well made.
I get sick and tired of parents who deny their offsprings' sex drive and refuse to teach them how to deal with it.
I'm not sure what type of site it was, so I reserve judgment about normalcy. However, if it was a generic porn site, then yes it's normal at his age, although it's illegal in the US for anyone under 18 to look at or show others porn. Hopefully at 14 you've already had at least beginner conversations about sexuality with him. If not, DO IT NOW. At 14 there's probably not much else he's thinking about other than sex, and better that he get good information from you.
i found my husband's of 33 years site with his girlfriend, who looked Exactly like his mother at 60, and was rampant with dogs & mules (or donkeys?) as well as the usual cast of characters. Compare.
But yes i think your 14 year old is Quite normal, certainly compared to that. And stop snooping!!!!!!