I was snipped back in the 90's when I began my second marriage ... I would have been, what, 40 at the time. Best decision I ever made -- one awkward and unpleasant hour in exchange for no more condoms, what's not to like?

I wasn't raised progressive but always considered birth control my responsibility ... aside from simple respect, you can't control Other People and so if you want something done right, do it yourself.

If had the money, I would have the vacestomy today. I think I would be an happier if I did.

Back on my late 20s and 30s when I asked to tight tubes Bcz I knew reproducing wasn't my desire ever , I was told by MD thats not a choice in USA if u never had a child . They will simply not do . I took birth control pill all my adult and reproductive life , husband at that time couldn't see any reason to get fixed instead . I am laughing . At 48, kids free and menopausal , while he inherited 2 young kids from 4th wife at age of 55 and bitching every day about it ?

So simple! I’ve never understood the general resistance to vasectomies by men.