As a former Anglican I can attest to the comparative liberalness of the tribe but in the end I think the core differences between a “believer” and the other will eventually cause more friction than you may want in a very serious relationship. Just an assumption on my part… every situation is it’s own ballgame, so to speak. Good luck.

You are torn. Christian are not torn. They are firm in their stupid primitive beliefs. But if you stay the path, you will feel the freedom for the rest of your life. You will begin choosing wisely.

What seems like 'love' (often just lust) today can be a source of frustration in the future. Beliefs are a major source of connection in a relationship and this one will stifle any future growth.

You're very young, keep looking around for someone who shares your worldview or lack thereof. Now is the time to be checking out lots of potential partners to find just the right fit. Being alone is good, it gives you space to figure out who you are. If you're afraid he will break up with you it shows you can feel the unbalance in the relationship. A good relationship will give you confidence. And yes, Xian love is conditional, essentially do it my way. You deserve better.

the only way to have a relationship that lasts is to be honest from the start. Otherwise you are only prolonging and making worse an eventual split that will be even more heartbreaking.

If you feel hurt and betrayed by Christians then why are you dating a Christian? You can't be that desperate.

Anglicans are usually very understanding and accepting people. I have many Anglican friends that know that I'm an atheist and still treat me as a special friend.

I hope you tell him soon and find he is as generous and caring as my Anglican friends.

1. Anglicans are Nothing like Evangelicals.
2. A talk is long overdue!
3. IMO next time be honest from the get-go, save both of you a lot of misery....

When the subject of religion comes up be honest, if it is a deal breaker, it just is. Better to be heartbroken for a while than to live a life of a lie. If he choses to continue make it clear what you are willing to do and NOT do.

Be true to yourself. If you suppress and withhold who you are, in time resentment will creep into the relationship and threaten to destroy it.

You and you only can chose how you live your life.

How much of your integrity and self-respect are you prepared to sacrifice?

If he is so insecure that he cannot tolerate your agnosticism, he is NOT a worthy catch.

What hold has he got over you? Are you prepared to betray yourself to yourself for what that man seems to be offering you? What will you do if you realise that nobody has ever demonstrated the existence of any god, let alone his god?

You could lead him on a while and break up later, if you prefer.