What do these things indicate to you? This is in relation to a man I've been seeing.
- Thinking about him constantly
- Feeling like you are cheating on him after 3 dates when you go out with someone else (that was about a month ago)
- Backing away because your feelings are too strong
- Not wanting to date another man
- Wanting to talk to him on the phone just to hear his voice
- When you kiss you feel that it's almost impossible to get close enough
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Sounds like the first flush of falling in love.
brainyactress
Level 7
Jan 17, 2019
1
Where's the problem? That all sounds great to me.
When you click with someone, go for it. This whole "be careful, be cautious" thing I never understood.
You're gonna get hurt, you're gonna get burned. Eventually. Why have reservations and regrets in love?
Kintaro
Level 6
Jan 12, 2019
1
Lust. I'll use the word "obsessed" but not in the psycho way just the totally lusting after him way.
RonWilliam53
Level 7
Jan 10, 2019
0
Perhaps attachment. Is this your pattern from before ? I say that only to make sure you stay present and don’t repeat the past.
Outsideit67
Level 7
Jan 10, 2019
2
No. I have never felt this way even with my son's dad.
After 3 dates, I think it's ok to have the "talk." You're just wasting time and emotional trauma if he's just stringing you along. Definitely have the talk if you are considering sexual relations. An old mother-of-an-ex once described my old boyfriend's roomate as an animal b/c he had a different girl every night. Don't be the person in the dark about this.
UrsiMajor
Level 8
Jan 10, 2019
1
The 3rd date happened about a month ago. I just remember that I already had a date planned and I remember how I felt weird going out with someone else.
We've already had sex and I don't regret it. I just wish we had discussed our relationship before, but it is what it is...and the sex is great...lol
Sounds like a very strong attraction. ... Be careful... Find out how he feels...
Cutiebeauty
Level 9
Jan 10, 2019
0
do you have any idea how he feels about you?
Lavergne
Level 8
Jan 10, 2019
1
Not exactly, but I know there is something there. If I had to guess I would say he wants me in his life.
That's something deep. Go with it. Relax, you got this.
aspiringunicorn
Level 6
Jan 10, 2019
2
Yep...and I've never felt this before...lol
@Cabsmom Make sure he's right there with you. Talk to him. Communication is critical.
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