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Yes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

KateOahu 8 May 29
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Disagree. I get confused sometimes. This still feel I have something to offer others. Labels hurt.

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It goes both ways

Daniel2021 Level 2 June 2, 2021
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Try being a counselor sometime. Most clients are confused. Most of them are hurt. And most of them are angry. Our parents and our education don't prepare us for living with a spouse. Or long-term living together relationship.

mischl Level 8 May 30, 2021

@MsKathleen You are SO right, Ms. K. Gee whiz, just a one-semester course in high school might possibly cut the divorce rate in HALF.

@MsKathleen Which is ONE of the reasons why my teaching career was VERY short. But, the chief reason was the ridiculous remuneration. I could make more money mowing grass. However, I did work with a huge bunch of teenagers over time (not inside the school system), and I found them to be very receptive to learning about getting along with girlfriends, boyfriends, sexual partners, etc.

@mischl Remember the Oscar Wilde quote, "everything i as bout sex-except sex. Sex is about power." Western society has made everything about sex, it's only one aspect of a relationship. Perhaps if we searched for a partner that shared the same ethics and non-sexual interests the divorce rate would become lower.

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Cuts both ways

bobwjr Level 10 May 29, 2021
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This may be true. I'M CONFUSED that so many women prefer men who treat them like shit.

BitFlipper Level 8 May 29, 2021

@MsKathleen Some people can smell low self esteem and exploit it.

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(i'm staying out of this one)

TheDoubter Level 9 May 29, 2021
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Yes, that is not gender specific. I know some confused women that I wouldn't wish on any man.

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