I believe the key to great sex is very simple..
Really care about the other person's pleasure and find someone that really cares about your pleasure.
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Some comments are spot on. Sex starts outside the bedroom, discussing likes and dislikes, fantasies and wishes. ONce you get to that level of comfort, it is easy when you get to the bedroom. You can role some cool scenarios. Also you should "turn our partner on" all day so that at the end of the day they actually want to jump you!
AlexRam
Level 7
Jan 15, 2019
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Yes find someone that cares it is hard to find.
PinkyandtheBrain
Level 7
Jan 12, 2019
2
Absolutely. Wish I had this in my 34 year marriage, well that’s a part of why we are done. I cannot allow another human to control me. I am what I am because I am what I am.
sbboudreau61
Level 5
Jan 12, 2019
1
People say the brain is the biggest sex organ but I feel the most important ones are the ears. If you listen to your partner's sounds when you're doing what you're doing, you'll know how please them.
RonWilliam53
Level 7
Jan 11, 2019
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Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! Give the woman a cigar!
JeremyTaylor
Level 8
Jan 11, 2019
1
I'll trade that cigar for an orgasm.
@Cabsmom next time you're in Ohio let me know and I'll see what I can do. ?
@JeremyTaylor I think I'll have to pass...lol.
@Cabsmom can't say I blame you. ?
@JeremyTaylor nothing personal...I'm just not into casual sex. I should have said that above. You are a cool guy.
@Cabsmom I was just teasing. I couldn't do a casual, one night stand sort of thing anyway. I need a connection first.
Thank you for the compliment though!
I believe it is that simple. Hard to find... but that simple.
Wildflower
Level 8
Jan 11, 2019
2
I have had amazing sex with women I had no deep feelings about at all. Maybe that was why it was great sex. There were no feelings interfering with pure unabated lust. I have had great sex with someone l was in love also. I have had below average sex with both also.
Sticks48
Level 9
Jan 11, 2019
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