Question: I am mostly straight but lately I have started to realize that I seem to indentify with the terms queer, bigender, asexual and non-binary. I see gender as more of a spectrum rather than purely binary. Can you feel what I am saying? Any thoughts?
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I believe there is no real difference between men and women other than the hormone related physical differences. The way if you put a diaper on a dog or cat you usually can't tell which are male and which are female. It is all just learned stereotypes. Im not saying we are dogs lol. Just that theres so much stereotypes put out in everyday life.
CandaceB
Level 4
Nov 8, 2021
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So you're not straight then.
Mofo1953
Level 9
Oct 19, 2021
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rude
@inigomontoya What is rude about my comment? You start by saying that you're mostly straight and then you say you're not. Is it wrong to request clarification?
Yes. Actually it is. This is my personal life that you are toying with. It’s insensitive and rude. Now please stop with the interrogation. I don’t have to answer ANY of your questions. Please don’t force me to block you. Thanks.
@inigomontoya toying with? If you don't want feedback in a public forum don't post. Asking for clarification is not "toying" but if you are so thin skinned after putting your own private life yourself, nobody forced you to put it, you did so out of your own volition, so don't act like a coy virgin dude, and if you want to block me I don't really give a fuck to be blocked by whiny little bitches, so go ahead and then crawl to your safe place where nobody will "toy" with your pathetic life.
I can't feel it but I see it in other people all the time. Everyone should be able to live a life that's true to their feelings. In those fuzzy areas, many have always found a way to be true to their own feelings but it didn't have a name.
Lorajay
Level 9
Oct 19, 2021
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I agree. I appreciate this comment
First off, they are labels. Do not let labeling define you for even a minute. Be what you want to be whenever you want to be it so long as you are not harming others in physical ways. Secondly, I feel your pain but have no thoughts other than trust Zen.
rainmanjr
Level 8
Oct 19, 2021
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WTF is Zen? lol 
haha. No I kinda know what that is... but I don’t trust zen buddhism or any other religion hence the whole agnostic dot com. lol. Oh and btw the labels helped me because it taught me to understand myself and be more self aware.
@inigomontoya Okay. Zen will happen whether you trust it, or call it that, or not so that's of no matter. Zen is an idea unto itself so not Buddhist. Buddhism and Taoism do incorporate it but Zen isn't them. If you understand yourself then what's the question? Gender is an illusionary concept.
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