Hello Houston.

Aivery comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I'm moving from Florida to Maryland and Maryland is much more expensive than Florida. I'd say Destin would be a great place to move for beaches. In all the places on the gulf, it is the most beachy, I think. And not as touristy as St. George Island. Sanibel Beach is expensive though, that's ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@Aivery omg that's where I am from get the fuck out of here. Damn

Hello Houston.

Aivery comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I'm moving from Florida to Maryland and Maryland is much more expensive than Florida. I'd say Destin would be a great place to move for beaches. In all the places on the gulf, it is the most beachy, I think. And not as touristy as St. George Island. Sanibel Beach is expensive though, that's ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@Aivery where are you moving to? I'm from md.

Had a nice dinner after working hard all day.

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Holy mackeral that is one huge burger.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@kenriley the truth set you free!! Lol

Had a nice dinner after working hard all day.

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Holy mackeral that is one huge burger.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@kenriley wildlife videos of snakes eating crockadile s . Seriously .lol

Sitting at the bar at outbacks in smithfield nc.

LB67 comments on Jul 9, 2018:

My heart is heavy, for this world of ours.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@lb67. They spoke a different English than I. But the best I could tell one of them owned a concrete finishing company and he couldnt compete with the illegal aliens because " they worked for free". I get this . I absolutely do. And this globalization of labor and automization and robotics is stranding tens of millions economically. But shitting on the immigrants wont change it. Imo.

Men/Women, Is sex a requirement for an enjoyable romantic relationship?

vmedel comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I think every couple is different, if they are BOTH happy with ones a month, good for them!!!!! .. I would probably die tho... LOL

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@vmedel. Lol cmon look at you! Shit that is not gonna happen

Sitting at the bar at outbacks in smithfield nc.

ProudMary comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Just keep telling yourself that their combined IQ isn't as high as yours.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

I avoided them like the plague

Hello Houston.

TristanNuvo comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I live in Clearwater. I love it here. it's on the west coast so it's on the Gulf, where that water is warmer, and real clear. It's no too expensive to live here. Well, I'm comparing that to where I used to live which was CT.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

Tristan ct is really expensive. Lol

Hello Houston.

Aivery comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I'm moving from Florida to Maryland and Maryland is much more expensive than Florida. I'd say Destin would be a great place to move for beaches. In all the places on the gulf, it is the most beachy, I think. And not as touristy as St. George Island. Sanibel Beach is expensive though, that's ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@AIVERY.. maybe you can live in northern Virginia....cheaper than md

Had a nice dinner after working hard all day.

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Holy mackeral that is one huge burger.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@btroje I dont think my mouth is that big. I'm not a snake.

What is worse for you, dating a person that believes in god, or a person that believes in the ...

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Wtf... just no. Just say NO

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@vmedel darn tooting.....no way

That a HA moment.

LucyLoohoo comments on Jul 9, 2018:

The first morning I woke in the Masai Mara (Kenya)...went out and saw who lived and who died overnight...I realized PROFOUNDLY that every living thing evolved to feed something else and felt a deep sense of regret that we've taken ourselves out of the natural order of things...to our detriment!

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@lucyloohoo congrats on living until 100! :)

That a HA moment.

TristanNuvo comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I can remember that same feeling. When I was younger a few friends and I used to travel to Vermont to ski. Take the ride to the top, and just stay up there for a while and soak it all in. like you said there was no sounds other that the wind through the pine trees, and the freshness of the air. And ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

Well Florida has amazing birds

That a HA moment.

jlynn37 comments on Jul 9, 2018:

One never sees god in settings like you describe, or in ANY setting for that matter, but one sees the beauty and wonder of nature everywhere at all time.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

Very well said

That a HA moment.

Sheannutt comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I was raised in a big city got married start living in rural areas and loved it. Now I am back in a city with a lot of noise and I wish I was back in the country. There's nothing better than to have peace and quiet to have a peace of mind.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

You can do both!

That a HA moment.

LucyLoohoo comments on Jul 9, 2018:

The first morning I woke in the Masai Mara (Kenya)...went out and saw who lived and who died overnight...I realized PROFOUNDLY that every living thing evolved to feed something else and felt a deep sense of regret that we've taken ourselves out of the natural order of things...to our detriment!

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

Indeed . We also live indoors and loose touch with all of nature.

That a HA moment.

helionoftroy comments on Jul 9, 2018:

The smell of the ocean and the sound of the waves, the morning mist rising over the mountains, the embers glowing in a campfire waiting for another log to flame back up. The sights and sounds of nature, fierce and yet tranquil. Yeah, I feel ya and know exactly what you mean.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

And the believers say see what beauty he created...sigh

Go ahead, try not to laugh. I nearly spewed my coffee this morning!

KKGator comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I didn't laugh. They're both vile and unfunny.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

@daylily I wasnt judging . I am having to not even watch the news. And its killing my liver... I refuse to let them make me hate them though. But I can loathe them and their cultish followers.

Go ahead, try not to laugh. I nearly spewed my coffee this morning!

KKGator comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I didn't laugh. They're both vile and unfunny.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

Yea that's my problem . I dont find them funny either. Loathsome

I want to start a daily ritual here.

LadyAlyxandrea comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Oh also I managed to buckle my shoes today without dislocating anything

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 9, 2018:

I feel ya...

I made split pea soup today. I know that it’s summertime but I still like to have soup!

AncientNight comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Split pea soup with bacon or ham is one of the things my wife liked to make on a cold winter day. This is another thing that I have to rummage through that disaster area that is my mind and see if I can come up with the recipe. If it were up to me, I would make Bacon soup with split peas.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 8, 2018:

With ham hocks!

I see more posts on dating sites for hookups than for dating.

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 7, 2018:

It's a weird new world

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

@evergreen new for someone like me. ... let's say I'm not in the game

Long or short

onlyduh comments on Jun 13, 2018:

....shit. was thinking you were referring to something TOTALLY different. Nevermind. Carry on.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

@onlyduh you were dying for someone to ask

For those who are married.

ProudMary comments on Jul 7, 2018:

Not me, but I think there were times my husband was. I gave him plenty of time and attention but I couldn't be everything to him. He was the one who isolated himself from everyone else so if he was lonely, I don't feel as though I'm to blame for it.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

No blame here..just trying to understand..

Long or short

onlyduh comments on Jun 13, 2018:

....shit. was thinking you were referring to something TOTALLY different. Nevermind. Carry on.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

Thick and stubby for you

What was the reason your last romantic relationship ended?

Soarfeet comments on Apr 27, 2018:

His teenaged fundamentally Christian daughters came to live with us. The day they moved in was the beginning of the end of a beautiful relationship.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

That's sad..but predictable

For those who are married.

AnneWimsey comments on Jul 7, 2018:

There is nothing more lonely than "being married" yet being shut out. I had over 30 years of looking for something that was not there. It is like a gnawing coldness inside, plus makes you feel like it must be your fault. IT IS NOT! I am SO much happier now that i am actually alone and can get ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

Thank you.... making me think.

For those who are married.

Lavergne comments on Jul 7, 2018:

Very familiar with the concept - married young the first time - we bought into the DINK philosophy (double income, no kids). All he wanted out of life was to be able to hunt, fish, spend time in his boat. Thought that would change once we had children but it didn't. It finally occurred to me ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

And what happened? How is it now?

For those who are married.

Hitchens comments on Jul 7, 2018:

Yes.. it's a terrible situation to be in and is symptomatic of issues of communication problems.. It's not a blame game...you can marry your best friend..then you have kids..and her focus changes..she may go back to work..and be coming home to take care of the kids..she's tired, busy..and ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

@Hitchens. Yes quite a bit of it...

For those who are married.

AMGT comments on Jul 7, 2018:

I was married to a man that would occasionally accuse me of neglect. He told me he was lonely in our marriage. We were constantly together. He was disabled after 8 years together and I worked at home. I was always serving him, doing for him, making sure he was comfortable. When I don’t get ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

Sorry I triggered shitty memories

For those who are married.

A2Jennifer comments on Jul 7, 2018:

Yes, I was much lonelier in my marriage than I have ever been since my divorce. being alone isn’t lonely for me. Being with someone who didn’t let me be myself was lonely.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 7, 2018:

Thanks... that's an insightful comment

On my way back from vacation today (3 1/2 hour drive) I had the pleasure of catching up with my ...

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 6, 2018:

Where did you go?

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 6, 2018:

@helionoftroy hope you had fun...

Robbie Robertson - Somewhere Down the Crazy River ://youtu.be/4KP9PNSUME4

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 6, 2018:

Yea robbie is the bomb too. Though Levon Helm wasnt a fan.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 6, 2018:

@sherylynn btw great art and pictures

Robbie Robertson - Somewhere Down the Crazy River ://youtu.be/4KP9PNSUME4

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 6, 2018:

Yea robbie is the bomb too. Though Levon Helm wasnt a fan.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 6, 2018:

@sherylynn something maybe about writing credit on the weight and the night they drove old Dixie down. Right?

For anyone who has body image difficulties, this is for you.

thinktwice comments on Jul 5, 2018:

I so agree...so many people don't do things because they are waiting to have a perfect body. Loving your life is a much bigger turn on than flat abs...finding others who feel the same way is always nice...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 5, 2018:

@thinktwice indeed congratulations and awesome for you

For anyone who has body image difficulties, this is for you.

thinktwice comments on Jul 5, 2018:

I so agree...so many people don't do things because they are waiting to have a perfect body. Loving your life is a much bigger turn on than flat abs...finding others who feel the same way is always nice...

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 5, 2018:

Seems you have this part knocked

Size matters...there, I said it....Happy Day, everyone! Have fun but be responsible!

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 4, 2018:

Said the nice lady with the XXX sign... lol

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 4, 2018:

@thinktwice yep ever the gentleman in public

How many road in the back of a station wagon like this?

thislife comments on Jul 4, 2018:

I'm sure we did, but don't remember. It's just weird to think how we never had seat belts.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 4, 2018:

@thislife yes we did. But tons of people didnt. That's why they added seatbelts.

Has anyone read the new Rolling Stone article on the best 100 songs of the century so far?

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 3, 2018:

https://wgntv.com/2018/07/02/the-100-greatest-songs-of-the-century-so-far-according-to-rolling-stone/

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 3, 2018:

@Salo thank you!

Has anyone read the new Rolling Stone article on the best 100 songs of the century so far?

Salo comments on Jul 3, 2018:

Plenty of good stuff in there as well as some rubbish, and loads I wouldnt have a clue about! But as always its in the eye of the beholder, whatever floats your boat.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 3, 2018:

what was the good stuff?

Has anyone read the new Rolling Stone article on the best 100 songs of the century so far?

magicwatch comments on Jul 3, 2018:

YOU DID NOT LINK THE LIST

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 3, 2018:

Help me out...not sure how to do that..

Mortgage free at 61 .

Lavergne comments on Jul 3, 2018:

WOW! Congratulations - that's a really big deal these days. ;)

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 3, 2018:

Thanks lavergne ..it is to me.....

It’s been a long and sleepless night.

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 3, 2018:

That's terrible @proudmary how old was she?

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 3, 2018:

@ProudMary I meant to say " partner". Seems an I'll fitting word. I am so sorry.

It’s been a long and sleepless night.

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 3, 2018:

That's terrible @proudmary how old was she?

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 3, 2018:

@ProudMary a male spouse?

What are your personal goals and visions?

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 2, 2018:

To retire at the end of 2018. Get in a bit better shape and stay active. See more live music, hike more. Meet my first grandchild. Celebrate each day with joy. Be a better father, man and husband.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 2, 2018:

I actually meant 2019... lol. 2018 is almost done. Saving a bit more for chuckleheads messing up the market.

What are your personal goals and visions?

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 2, 2018:

To retire at the end of 2018. Get in a bit better shape and stay active. See more live music, hike more. Meet my first grandchild. Celebrate each day with joy. Be a better father, man and husband.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 2, 2018:

I actually meant 2019... lol. 2018 is almost done. Saving a bit more for chuckleheads messing up the market.

What are your personal goals and visions?

Bigwavedave comments on Jul 2, 2018:

To retire at the end of 2018. Get in a bit better shape and stay active. See more live music, hike more. Meet my first grandchild. Celebrate each day with joy. Be a better father, man and husband.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 2, 2018:

I actually meant 2019... lol. 2018 is almost done. Saving a bit more for chuckleheads messing up the market.

What are your personal goals and visions?

Mike1947 comments on Jul 2, 2018:

To find the last love of my life,to be happy together,a roof over our heads,food to eat, and enjoy life.

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 2, 2018:

Go get it

Mortgage free at 61 .

Cast1es comments on Jul 1, 2018:

Good for you ! I doubled up on my payments , and reached that milestone decades ago .

Bigwavedave replies on Jul 1, 2018:

Holyvshit .. decades???

Neighbor saw this fox on his porch yesterday

sweetcharlotte comments on Jun 30, 2018:

Interesting looking. Different markings from the ones I've seen.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 30, 2018:

@TheresaReid2 how did he eat from the birdfeeder

Neighbor saw this fox on his porch yesterday

Varn comments on Jun 30, 2018:

They’re smart and skittish! 33 years in the deep woods (of Oregon) and it was very rare, maybe 4 times I saw a (gray or red) fox … usually during the worst winter weather. Built a ‘fox feeder’ where we’d place a dog biscuit for them, but the only time I’d see them was the middle of the...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 30, 2018:

So its amazing eh?

Neighbor saw this fox on his porch yesterday

sweetcharlotte comments on Jun 30, 2018:

Interesting looking. Different markings from the ones I've seen.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 30, 2018:

That's what I thought red and grey

At the current rate of joinage Agnostic.

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 30, 2018:

How many per day?

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 30, 2018:

@ipdg77 not bad ...

Dave invades Ocracoke island by ferry. Rumors are, they have a shortage of Daves.

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 30, 2018:

Go get the Bob's. . Bet they forgot the beer.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 30, 2018:

@CallMeDave poor sad dave!

When people sneeze, do you say "god bless you" ??? I do! Lol

Ryksie comments on Jun 29, 2018:

Just a habit?

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 29, 2018:

Yep. My mom loved to say that when she called me a sob

Do you have BDE (Big Dick Energy) - it's defined not as a physical penis, rather an air of ...

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 28, 2018:

I have been in sales 20 years. That's the definition of bde.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 28, 2018:

@Faithless1 not sure what kind if sales person you are talking about .... I help CEOs run better operations. No bullshit at all.

Do you have BDE (Big Dick Energy) - it's defined not as a physical penis, rather an air of ...

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 28, 2018:

I have been in sales 20 years. That's the definition of bde.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 28, 2018:

@Faithless1 I am not sure I am following you. Professional sales is hard as hell and the results speak for themselves. It takes courage and smarts to be successful.

Soulmates: do they exist?

chilehead9 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

The thought that there's only one person out there that you need to find out of a sea of 7.5 billion is a bit ridiculous, as that makes needles and haystacks look like child's play. What makes someone your match is the mutual commitment and caring that are built between you and someone that is ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 28, 2018:

I agree it's just nonsense. And hell I've been married 34 years.

With three young women I mentored, I hiked Icicle Gorge trail near Leavenworth today for four miles.

Ellatynemouth comments on Jun 28, 2018:

Why no men?

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 28, 2018:

@LiterateHiker well those two boys did anyhow. If course it's your call and I do agree boys are less mature at that age. But it is just two data points.

A brilliant Woman by the name of Jane Mayer writes for the New Yorker for er than most of us have ...

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 28, 2018:

I'm 61. And now have no passion for this country, near retirement but my children live here. I feel lost on where to go ..what to do.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 28, 2018:

@KC1959 I had this notion that the vast majority of our military was supportive of this, can you shed some light on this?

A brilliant Woman by the name of Jane Mayer writes for the New Yorker for er than most of us have ...

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 28, 2018:

I'm 61. And now have no passion for this country, near retirement but my children live here. I feel lost on where to go ..what to do.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 28, 2018:

@Freedompath it's kind of sad

This was an interesting article I came across.

TheoryNumber3 comments on Jun 27, 2018:

I have to admit, since I retired, and spend about 75% of my time alone, and much of that on social media, I sometimes feel like I need to be around actual people. But you all know how we feel about people... so I'm between a rock and a hard place. My solution is to go sit by myself in a coffee ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 28, 2018:

@TheoryNumber3 right I dont do them...lol

This was an interesting article I came across.

TheoryNumber3 comments on Jun 27, 2018:

I have to admit, since I retired, and spend about 75% of my time alone, and much of that on social media, I sometimes feel like I need to be around actual people. But you all know how we feel about people... so I'm between a rock and a hard place. My solution is to go sit by myself in a coffee ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 28, 2018:

I would need more people interactions ...I expect that to be a major challenge for a retiring salesman

A brilliant Woman by the name of Jane Mayer writes for the New Yorker for er than most of us have ...

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 28, 2018:

I'm 61. And now have no passion for this country, near retirement but my children live here. I feel lost on where to go ..what to do.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 28, 2018:

@BettyColeman that's a long way to go to see my children

Why would anyone want to date you?

LiterateHiker comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Men recently described me as, "highly intelligent, extremely fit, gorgeous, sexy and hilarious... with the body of an 18-year-old."

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 27, 2018:

And that bouncing coin thing

are you afraid of death?

MrsMickiLP comments on Jun 27, 2018:

Its hard to live if you are in constant fear. Let me ask you something. Do you remember before you were born? No? Good. We don't know what comes after this life, if anything—try to live by making good with the world, make your lifeso beautiful that you don’t worry about dearh, but eventually...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 27, 2018:

Every day needs to be a celebration

Used to this at a neighbor's house growing up, lots of fun.

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 27, 2018:

I had one . Maybe it would be more fun if you were high.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 27, 2018:

@Sheannutt so report back

Used to this at a neighbor's house growing up, lots of fun.

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 27, 2018:

I had one . Maybe it would be more fun if you were high.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 27, 2018:

@Sheannutt well u are in oregon

One of my pleasures is what I call Mexican Coke.

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 27, 2018:

It sure does

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 27, 2018:

@BufftonBeotch oh I have no idea... havent been in ten years . Dont know where else to get a great fountain drink

One of my pleasures is what I call Mexican Coke.

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 27, 2018:

It sure does

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 27, 2018:

@BufftonBeotch you know if you get a fountain drink at Disney it tastes like a real coca cola

I thought I would post something different today.

Tomfoolery33 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Hope you benefited from the change.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 26, 2018:

It's hard to say.. I am in sales and they paid salespeople very well. So I would say I earned what I deserved. Of course now there is a new marshal in town.

I have a question for all you music lovers out there: Do you have a favorite song? If so, why?

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Just one? No way . Can I name ten?

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 26, 2018:

@clmartin I still am..

Labelling yourself an atheist in online dating apps

InfiDelicious comments on Jun 25, 2018:

My personal experience has been that (in my region of the midwestern US) most people would rather date anyone, literally anyone, other than an atheist. Sure, if you don't mention being an atheist you might get more dates, but one's beliefs, or lack thereof, is usually a deal breaker. This should not...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 26, 2018:

I feel bad for daters today you have to declare EVERYTHING before you meet someone. When I met my wife 100 years ago, she was a southern baptist. I was a nothing. Now we are both comfortably heathen. As are our children. I think I am making progress on her parents , but I am running out of time.

I have a question for all you music lovers out there: Do you have a favorite song? If so, why?

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Just one? No way . Can I name ten?

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 26, 2018:

@clmartin LOL Thanks Best Rolling Stones Song Sympathy for the Devil Best Beatles Song Let it Be Best Breakup song (tie) Bob Dylan Idiot Wind David Bowie Sorrow Best Current Party Group and Song Nathaniel Rateliff and the Night Sweats Son of a Bitch Best Current Female Rocker Brandi Carlisle The Story Best Genre Breaking Song Valerie June Working Woman Blues Best Song from Queen Bohemian Rhapsody Best Anti War Song Tie Ohio CSN&Y, Volunteer from Jefferson Starship man I could go on for days My life is defined by the moments and the music.

I have a question for all you music lovers out there: Do you have a favorite song? If so, why?

Gatovicolo comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Let It Be. I had a crappy childhood and that song made me feel better.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 26, 2018:

Paul just discussed that song on james Corden drive along..watch it

I have a question for all you music lovers out there: Do you have a favorite song? If so, why?

sassygirl3869 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

So many - too many-one of my up songs -Love Shackhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9SOryJvTAGs

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 26, 2018:

I saw them perform this live on the lawn of the Biltmore mansion. Great party song.

Just a moment

Vickylyn comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Nobody wants to f@ck me...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 26, 2018:

Why would you say or think that?

What are the best and/or your favorite musicians of all time?

Emerald comments on Jun 25, 2018:

David Bowie. Total obsession

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 25, 2018:

Yes. . I get it.

What ever happened to Chris Isaak? (Was just listening to a cover of Wicked Game.)

Bigwavedave comments on Jun 24, 2018:

He still performs and records. Btw where did you get the funny trump foll? Lol

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 24, 2018:

@Kristinat1 thanks it's funny. I want one

Self Discovery

MeagLorena comments on Jun 24, 2018:

I cartainly had a questioning mind as well. My realization came after being told my being molested was "god's will". It didn't sit right. Once I started questioning more the truth was very clear. I am reading the Portable Athiest by Christopher Hitchens currently. The literature in it is ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 24, 2018:

So they used religion to justify molesting a minor. What a surprise.

What is your favorite summer activity? Why is it your go to?

ScientistV comments on Jun 24, 2018:

I love to travel, beaches or mountains and camping to relax... I need to head up to the OBX soon and catch the annual bioluminescence.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 24, 2018:

And when is this bio luminessence

Should I travel and seek a different reality?

Geoffrey51 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

You can travel the world or even to the moon but most likely find out as did Dorothy "There's no place like home". It is , however, necessary to undertake the journey to understand it internally rather than intellectually.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 23, 2018:

@Lavergne I have been to Tuscany twice and provence once. Visitingwas great... I am thinking just renting a one bedroom flat for a month or so in the fall or spring. I still have to get to greece

Should I travel and seek a different reality?

KKGator comments on Jun 23, 2018:

GO!!! Explore!!! Learn to be uncomfortable!!!!! Have some new experiences! If I could still drive, I'd never be home!!! I'd probably have visited a bunch of the people on this site by now! I'd never be home (yes, I know I've said it twice--I really mean it!!!!)!!!! It's a big world, go see ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 23, 2018:

@KKGator. Awww where do you want to go? I am assuming you mean too impaired to drive...can you see landscapes?

Should I travel and seek a different reality?

Geoffrey51 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

You can travel the world or even to the moon but most likely find out as did Dorothy "There's no place like home". It is , however, necessary to undertake the journey to understand it internally rather than intellectually.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 23, 2018:

I'm not feeling no place like home. I grew up in Baltimore md and my first professional job was in Lynchburg va. Home of Jerry Falwell. I now live in Raleigh Nc... best place so far. But Tuscany beckons.

Should I travel and seek a different reality?

Josephine comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Go, live the unexpected life.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 23, 2018:

The road less traveled

Should I travel and seek a different reality?

KKGator comments on Jun 23, 2018:

GO!!! Explore!!! Learn to be uncomfortable!!!!! Have some new experiences! If I could still drive, I'd never be home!!! I'd probably have visited a bunch of the people on this site by now! I'd never be home (yes, I know I've said it twice--I really mean it!!!!)!!!! It's a big world, go see ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 23, 2018:

Why cant you drive? Use uber?

'The Trump administration has been castigated at the United Nations in Geneva for consciously ...

Surfpirate comments on Jun 22, 2018:

The rest of the world just shakes its head in disbelief. Still people cheer for El Cheeto and sing his praises, they must be mad.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

Damn straight they are.

73 degrees , 85 degrees , 95 degrees .

Lavergne comments on Jun 22, 2018:

I feel your pain.....my house has three distinct "zones" but because it was built 40 yrs ago, they slapped one A/C unit and ductwork in there and expected that to be sufficient to heat and cool a chalet style structure (prow and 30' ceilings in one area, etc). HA! A Mini-split system has ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

@Lavergne how did you pick Tennessee?

Soon to be North Carolinian.

slydr68 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

I'm in the Raleigh/Durham area. It's not all bad...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

@slydr68 I will check it out thanks

Soon to be North Carolinian.

slydr68 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

I'm in the Raleigh/Durham area. It's not all bad...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

@slydr68 Mateo is our favorite Durham restaurant

What do you think about sharks?

BestWithoutGods comments on Jun 22, 2018:

Being a lawyer myself, I have no problem with my fellow sharks. :P Seriously, sharks are no more evil than any other carnivorous animal. Humans have exaggerated the danger of sharks, and are too merciless toward them. Let's leave them in peace.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

@BestWithoutGods I used to know dozens of lawyer jokes. I forgot most of them . Thanks for indulging me.

Re: Melania's coat - True feelings, irony intended, extreme obliviousness, or a cry for help?

Ryksie comments on Jun 22, 2018:

I feel for her. People will criticize her regardless and there is no escape.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

I dont she made a good deal with the devil. Why should we be sorry?

First Lady of Not Giving a Shit. What a proud day for America.

Paul628 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

She's a real piece of shit. An awful sub-human.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

@Redcupcoffee it is hard for me to imagine someone with so little compassion. Yep

What do you think about sharks?

BestWithoutGods comments on Jun 22, 2018:

Being a lawyer myself, I have no problem with my fellow sharks. :P Seriously, sharks are no more evil than any other carnivorous animal. Humans have exaggerated the danger of sharks, and are too merciless toward them. Let's leave them in peace.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

Say it was so cold the other day....drumroll... I saw a lawyer walking around with his hands in his own pocket. Boom.

Soon to be North Carolinian.

slydr68 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

I'm in the Raleigh/Durham area. It's not all bad...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

any favorit bars or restaurants you like? Have you found a social group of fellow agnostics? My wife and I have a social group...but only my brother and his wife are fellow heathens.

How many languages do you speak? List them in the comments.

Ellatynemouth comments on Jun 22, 2018:

I used to get by, fairly basically in Norwegian. It's gone now. I came to the conclusion that I have no interest in learning languages if I don't need to use them in daily life. Everyone speaks English.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

@Ellatynemouth my swedish friends speak better English than I do. It's so humbling.

73 degrees , 85 degrees , 95 degrees .

Lavergne comments on Jun 22, 2018:

I feel your pain.....my house has three distinct "zones" but because it was built 40 yrs ago, they slapped one A/C unit and ductwork in there and expected that to be sufficient to heat and cool a chalet style structure (prow and 30' ceilings in one area, etc). HA! A Mini-split system has ...

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

Lol I would take the cold room in winter over the 84 degree br in summer.

How many languages do you speak? List them in the comments.

Ellatynemouth comments on Jun 22, 2018:

I used to get by, fairly basically in Norwegian. It's gone now. I came to the conclusion that I have no interest in learning languages if I don't need to use them in daily life. Everyone speaks English.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 22, 2018:

You spoke viking and gave it up?

It only takes the universe 9 months to create a new human being.

Gwendolyn2018 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

Getting Trumpass out of the White House.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:

@Renickulous the investigation is ongoing get a life. Troll elsewhere

It only takes the universe 9 months to create a new human being.

Gwendolyn2018 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

Getting Trumpass out of the White House.

Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:

@Renickulous too much fox