Hi, newbie here How are you today guys?

Booklover comments on Nov 30, 2018:

Meh. But, welcome ?

From another dating site...so very Christian

Booklover comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Well what to say except EWWWW!

I think I’m being ghosted.

Booklover comments on Nov 28, 2018:

She's a social coward and rude. I get you, it's annoying to think you are friends and then they can't be bothered to say they are to busy or just not interested anymore for whatever reason.

I dread the Holiday Season, or maybe it is just Seasonal Affective Disorder (aka: Wintertime ) ...

Booklover comments on Nov 27, 2018:

I have always been affected by SAD along with the clinical depression. Holidays of all kinds suck since my divorce. This year, I bought a light box. It only takes a half hour out of your day to sit in front of it, a good time to look at Agnostics. It seems to be helping. They are relatively inexpensive I bought mine at Amazon. It must have 10,000 whatever units they use, I'm sorry I forget.

Goodnight Kitty:

Booklover comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Such big feets, and so comfy looking.

My 10 year old boy kitty Duffy was murdered by a car.

Booklover comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I have a brother and sister neither spray in the house. And yes females spray too. Somebody else mentioned a territorial thing and yes that's usually the problem. All that being said two kittens are better than just one and indoors only. Good luck finding your girls.

Our new Maine Coon, Nebula.

Booklover comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Oh he won't have any trouble getting you trained at all. Lol

A Siberian Caracal, oh, the ears on this little one! [facebook.com]

Booklover comments on Nov 25, 2018:

He's adorable. He belongs in the wild, I wonder what his story is?

Hi Everyone, Is there a formal application process for joining the group?

Booklover comments on Nov 25, 2018:

How do you do?

Hi,everyone,my name is Adrian,I live in Plymouth,England, I have been single for over 10 years ...

Booklover comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Hello

Kitty sez...Good Morning all

Booklover comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Oh my goodness is that what her eyes really look like? Copper?

Stwangers....

Booklover comments on Nov 24, 2018:

??❤???

On a Scale of Cat, How Are You Feeling Today?

Booklover comments on Nov 23, 2018:

6

Hello everybody i have just joined this group.

Booklover comments on Nov 23, 2018:

That's the way it is the inside stays the same the outside changes.

Did everyone make it through Turkey Day?

Booklover comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Avoided all the people ?

Goodnight kitty

Booklover comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Tooooo much turkey!

Long legs! That face though, lol. [facebook.com]

Booklover comments on Nov 22, 2018:

I love Oriental shorthairs!!

My daughter and I making sweet potato pie together.

Booklover comments on Nov 22, 2018:

And isn't your daughter a cutie pie!

Happy Thanksgiving! [youtu.be]

Booklover comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Loved the show, loved that episode!

Meal time!

Booklover comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Nom, nom, nom.

Me and my best cat friend Mitch

Booklover comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Mitch loves his dad I think.

Happy thanksgiving! If you don't want to share the day with family, which is understood, I hope that...

Booklover comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Nope not alone, two cats. And , of course, all the people in my head. Lol ?

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone ?.

Booklover comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Cute little pilgrims. Happy Thanksgiving to you.

Yoo furrgawt.....

Booklover comments on Nov 22, 2018:

I never bother closing doors around here.

OK, Feline Folks, I had an absolutely horrendous day.

Booklover comments on Nov 21, 2018:

Here's Spike in a babushka, lol

Hi everyone, just want introduce myself, enjoy conversation and comradery.

Booklover comments on Nov 21, 2018:

Hello, welcome!

Having a great meal at the Denver Biscuit company with these two cuties.

Booklover comments on Nov 21, 2018:

Welcome, have a nice visit ?

I can’t believe I turned 55 years old today. Where does the time go??

Booklover comments on Nov 21, 2018:

Happy Birthday! ?

Mattie is being incredibly helpful while I’m trying to fold the draperies to prepare for our move ...

Booklover comments on Nov 21, 2018:

There wasn't enough cat hair on them.

This may have been posted before but I think it's beautiful???

Booklover comments on Nov 19, 2018:

Sweet. ? I hope everybody is now neutered and spayed including the babies.

I would like to meet a female for a possible relationship and good conversation is a must theist

Booklover comments on Nov 19, 2018:

I think you might be confused as to who is on this site

Men look at my profile at a of 5-1 more than women.

Booklover comments on Nov 19, 2018:

I look at anybody who interests me with posts or photos, man or woman. I date men, generally of a compatible age but I'm friends with any body who's interested. Shouldn't let it make you nervous you don't have to interact with anybody. It's not just a dating site but a community.

How often does this happen?

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Not so much I'm kind of a hermit ?

The cost of my services: plenty of men have rejected the notion that if I'm doing most everything ...

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Absolutely. I hear men talking about how their wife got half of their stuff when there was a divorce. Well excuse me, she worked for that "stuff" too. Even if she didn't work outside the home. My ex had the nerve to ask if I thought I "deserved " half. I said to take that up with the judge. He soon found out. By the way he got waaay more than half as I didn't want his stuff.

Just having a easy day out here in the country.

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Love your "over-hauls" lol

Finally truth in advertising....

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

That looks like Marmalade from Cole and Marmalade. Cutie pie and definitely addictive.

I'm visiting some friends about to okay some board/video games and drink. What are you all up to?

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Just had my lunch and contemplating whether I should stick my nose in a book or clean house. This evening is Dr Who and also The Walking Dead and quite probably a large bowl of popcorn.

Did you know?

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

I guarantee if an officer or a correction officer has sex with a prisoner and is discovered, consensual or not, they are fired. No ifs ands or buts. There doesn't need to be a specific law that cops can't rape someone, it's already illegal to rape somebody. I have no doubts it happens, there are rotten, disgusting people in any profession and it's particularly horrible if it's someone you should be able to trust.

I was being friendly the other day with a young woman on twitter when she called me pops.

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Just open your camera that happens to be looking at you. That'll convince you. Aaaaaauugh! Not only do I look old I kinda look like a gargoyle. Your phone will be at just the right angle. Hey try it, try it right now. I dare you to snap that picture and post it!

So, here's a question.

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

I read the replies to this post and am impressed by most. I love that people on this site are thinkers, well mostly. Lol. Could you know me from my bio? No, because it's not very good. I tossed it off when I joined without much thought. It's very surface and my pictures don't say who I am because I dislike having my picture taken. The smile, however, is mine. My armor against the world is my pretty smile. Though mostly it's real, I am friendly and automatically smile at people. I'm nice, I'm polite. When I was a civil servant people were astounded by my smiling face especially if they had been next door to get their license plates. By the way, most of those folks are very nice they just get beaten down by their job. But I digress as I'm wont to do. I hide the fact that I'm an introvert and that persona disappears as soon as I don't have to interact. I hide that I've suffered from dysthymia most of life with intermittent bouts of deep depression. That smile hides the anxiety that I cope with everyday. The bio doesn't say that I'm now disabled with these things because who puts that out there on a dating site? And now that I've killed any chances of romances you might know me better than my bio says. If you read my replies you might know I have a pretty good sense of humor and that I love my cats. So can you know someone, no. Pigeonhole someone , yes. But, you are probably wrong. And that's what I think after a skimpy nights sleep.

Hello , My name is Hans , So many men here !

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Is that good or bad?

The guilt is terrible - I forgot your Goodnight Kitty! I hope none of you are awake! Here's ...

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Not to worry, don't feel guilty.

Saw this and made me chuckle

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

?It's All About That Bass ?

Not needing words and knowing when we smile at each other that we are meant to be.

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Used to once upon a time ?

!.Skeeter and his Hitchcock shadow 2. that box is really comfy 3. Petting is Goood!

Booklover comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Is Skeeter getting Grinchy?

Good opening lines.

Booklover comments on Nov 17, 2018:

That would do it for me lol

Trojan kitty?

Booklover comments on Nov 17, 2018:

Took me a minute...lol.

Among the creepy posts: (this guy played Words with Friends with me.

Booklover comments on Nov 17, 2018:

Not only creepy but his grammar is atrocious! ?

I have changed T T's name to Kitty...Don't ask

Booklover comments on Nov 17, 2018:

I had a Miss Kitty many, many years ago. I see she's learning cat stuff, sleeping on paperwork.

Who you calling cute?

Booklover comments on Nov 15, 2018:

You! You little dickens.

How stupid am I for wanting to marry a virgin?

Booklover comments on Nov 15, 2018:

How stupid are you? I would say pretty darn stupid.

Good morning! Today is national pancreatic cancer awareness day.

Booklover comments on Nov 15, 2018:

Thx for reminding! I'll do it.

Hello I'm Sandy from Southport, UK.

Booklover comments on Nov 15, 2018:

Hello

Hi.

Booklover comments on Nov 15, 2018:

Yo Ted! Hey.

Pweeeezz...

Booklover comments on Nov 15, 2018:

Let her out!

Trying to reach Level 8.

Booklover comments on Nov 15, 2018:

Chocolate chip

How do you feel about Facebook?

Booklover comments on Nov 14, 2018:

A clue for you who are hesitant, I had to join FB and a couple of other social sites. Anybody remember Myspace? Lol. It was part on my job as I did background checks on prospective employees. Hey, years ago but I bet places still do.

@!!$&%/!!

Booklover comments on Nov 14, 2018:

That is the best expression!

Name a Movie Quote That Gives The Film Away Without Saying the Title! Gooooo!

Booklover comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Think you used enough dynamite there Butch?

Very bad news ?

Booklover comments on Nov 14, 2018:

A small piece of advice I had from a Victim"s Advocate, get plenty of death certificates as you will need them for everything. Our state charges for them if you have to ask for more. I'm so sorry for you and your friend, losing a sibling is terrible.

Okay, I joined because, well, I'm in my 50s. When did THIS happen?

Booklover comments on Nov 14, 2018:

It does say 50 + so there's that. You aren't the plus yet. Lol. Signed +

So this may not be a singles post but I know you are an awsome group Thursday is Pancreatic ...

Booklover comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Remind us again Thursday, I have a memory like a sieve. I'm sorry for your loss.

Damn, just finished cleaning the bathroom, used the vacuum and sucked up enough hair to make wigs ...

Booklover comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Between mine and the cats could knit a sweater.

Goodnight Kitty:

Booklover comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Nighty, night sweetheart.

Just found out tonight my friend I wrote about [agnostic.

Booklover comments on Nov 13, 2018:

So sorry.

It's looking like I am going to remain single through the winter.

Booklover comments on Nov 13, 2018:

Classy?

Find the Time Take The Time Make The Time To Smile, Speak a Kind Word to Recognize Another ...

Booklover comments on Nov 13, 2018:

I like to give somebody a compliment, has to be sincere though. Hey I like your shoes, or that's a cute blouse, I love the saying on your tshirt.

[facebook.com] The cutest thief!

Booklover comments on Nov 12, 2018:

Butter him up baby! Spike would have stolen it and run.

Meet My new Fur Baby...T.T.

Booklover comments on Nov 12, 2018:

I'm in love! Girl or boy?

STAN LEE, master at MARVEL COMICS, dead at 95.

Booklover comments on Nov 12, 2018:

?

You know you are singing/saying like Sting. Lol

Booklover comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Heard the actual song yesterday and could think of nothing but that doggie look, lol.

I Got Other Ribs Bitches

Booklover comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I love that you can now buy an action figure!

This is what I woke up too...

Booklover comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Answered my earlier question lol.

Up a little early, so still groggy while I wait for my coffee to brew.

Booklover comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Slept waaaaay late and no desire to get out of bed! Spike wanted out on the catio so I opened the window shade to show him the white stuff coming out of the sky. I asked him if he was happy not to have to live out there like some kitties? Being a cat he said "meh" and we climbed back under the covers. He is enjoying watching the flakes fall though.

I have not been here in a while. Say'in hi???

Booklover comments on Nov 11, 2018:

??

This compilation is amazingly funny! (Watch 'til the end, because the cat in the leaves at the end ...

Booklover comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Spike loves to steal things off my chair side tables. Doesn't matter what it is.

Pets in the bedroom. Yes, No?

Booklover comments on Nov 9, 2018:

Yep, my cats usually sleep next to me I wiggle too much to sleep on me.

Rules to live by...

Booklover comments on Nov 9, 2018:

These things always say "be with somebody who..." they never say where he will be found. How can I do what they tell me, huh?

Today is Pixie's birthday, she's 2 years old.

Booklover comments on Nov 9, 2018:

Happy Birthday Pixie! ? a present for you.

Feeling so helpless as wildfire engulfs my town.

Booklover comments on Nov 8, 2018:

So frightening. I'm hoping for miracles for your animals

Just wondering.

Booklover comments on Nov 8, 2018:

That's where my hair started going silver and a streak in my bangs. After I quit coloring it it's lighter in the front and darker in the back. Pretty salt and pepper.

Goodnight Kitty: (This one is titled "Ran in and got adopted" - apparently it was time for a ...

Booklover comments on Nov 8, 2018:

I've never chosen a cat, they come when I need them.

I'm confused! As non believers, why are people talking about celebrating Christmas? Hmmm

Booklover comments on Nov 8, 2018:

Winter Solstice! The sun is heading the other way.

Alone for the holidays.

Booklover comments on Nov 8, 2018:

Keep talking a lot of us are in the same place and support here will be helpful.

I have no post notifications, but see that things were posted. What's up with that?

Booklover comments on Nov 8, 2018:

Me too. This is on my homepage.

What's Your Disney Side Name? Just For Fun Nemo The Fairest Mermaid

Booklover comments on Nov 7, 2018:

Joy the cute Mouse. I like it!

Misphonia or ASMR?

Booklover comments on Nov 7, 2018:

I can't stand chewing noises. I also startle easily, they say that's a consequence of growing up in a home with an alcoholic parent.

How close is too close?

Booklover comments on Nov 7, 2018:

It seemed to be popular in the 70s. My in laws bought us matching shirts one Christmas. We were terribly cute. Used to have a picture somewhere.

Right before I go to bed, I open up canned food for my fur babies.

Booklover comments on Nov 7, 2018:

Mine have to have their bedtime treat too. Spike often speeds the going to bed by being obnoxious until I can't stand it. Lol

Being a shameless point whore tonight.

Booklover comments on Nov 7, 2018:

Nekkid

Auto makers are making fewer manual transmissions. How many of you actually like driving a manual?

Booklover comments on Nov 7, 2018:

Just about every vehicle I've driven was a stick. No particular reason just worked out that way. I like that I don't have to bypass buying a nice car because it's a manual transmission. My little Subaru has to last the rest of my life and it's a stick.

Wow! 412 points until I hit level 8!

Booklover comments on Nov 7, 2018:

?

Add a little beer belly, and fuck if that's not me!!! LMAO

Booklover comments on Nov 6, 2018:

As long as nothing hangs over the edge!

Must be a British thing. [facebook.com]

Booklover comments on Nov 6, 2018:

Those gorgeous copper eyes.

It turned out not to be a very good day today.

Booklover comments on Nov 5, 2018:

I'm so sorry.

I have only dated one woman that thought to roleplay was something intimate.

Booklover comments on Nov 5, 2018:

Used to dress up all sexy, make a special dinner all that "romantic" crap occasionally. Invariably he would call about working late on a job, or he and his co-workers were going out for a beer or not bother to call at all. Hard to keep a white hot sexy stoked up. Bleh.

Can we talk about communication and "ghosting" for a second?

Booklover comments on Nov 5, 2018:

One trouble I have in life is overwhelming curiosity. I want to know everything! Lol. I agree casual, online communication doesn't require any explanation but I thought ghosting referred to an ongoing relationship with actual face to face dating. When the fella I was dating, enjoying each other's company, liking each other, presumably, just disappeared I wanted to know why. Did I do something? Doesn't mean I would change anything but I want to know. And to Pepper and Cutie of course you two are overwhelmed with messages! Never had that problem myself. Lol

Good morning everyone.

Booklover comments on Nov 5, 2018:

Hot chocolate today!

I'm earning the Insomniac title.

Booklover comments on Nov 5, 2018:

My sister says with a good night's sleep she could rule the world! I believe her, and the world might be a better place. Lol. I have always had good sleep habits. Escalating depression ruined that. You feel tired all the time whether you sleep or not and you either sleep too much or too little.

This is sort of an introductory post.

Booklover comments on Nov 4, 2018:

What a gorgeous boy! So sleek and shiny.