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I've been divorced for longer than I was married. I have three kids (2 adults) 20,19 & a 17 year old. Plus I have a new grandson! I have two tattoos; one on my left arm of my 's names and one on my right wrist of my grandson's name.

I grew up in a non-denominational, fundamentalist church that believes in demon possession, speaking in tongues, visions of a spirtual nature, and "god-instances". I have many interesting stories to follow; some funny others horrifying. I understood at a age that the promises the bible stated for its followers were not true.Yet the apologetics and family ties forced me to remain in the church until adulthood. I am an agnostic anti-theist.


People seem confused on this word, so here is the definition of agnostic.
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There's nothing like escaping to the islands.
ashortbeauty comments on May 30, 2018:
I live in Florida so it's not that far
Just a for anyone who might be messaging here.
ashortbeauty comments on May 30, 2018:
..and gals
Would you get on a plane if the pilot said, "You're life is in god's hands?"
ashortbeauty comments on May 30, 2018:
Yes because i don't believe in god so what he said makes no more sense than if he'd said my life is in tinkerbell's hands
Do you feel less alone, isolated and/or different since joining Agnostics?
ashortbeauty comments on May 30, 2018:
It's been a joy to be here sharing with so many different people. I do feel less alone.
Alice In Chains [youtu.be]
ashortbeauty comments on May 30, 2018:
I forgot about them. Good post
This was uncommon to me until I learned that my ex was doing it: gas·light ˈɡaslīt' noun ...
ashortbeauty comments on May 31, 2018:
I'm sorry about your ex
Some faves, apoplectic, it dates back to when people thought extreme frustration could overload your...
ashortbeauty comments on May 31, 2018:
Good words
Does your workplace offer support or resources for mental illnesses?
ashortbeauty comments on May 31, 2018:
I'll start of the voting process. I'm retired so no but my last job held a stigma towards mental health to the point that I had to retire early
Introduction to Brennan B2 this music box looks incredible [youtu.be]
ashortbeauty comments on May 31, 2018:
They Does look cool! My birthdays in September ;)
Fortuitous circumstance, this was my facebook post, five years ago today.
ashortbeauty comments on May 31, 2018:
Way cool
'Lonely' Neutron Star Looks Fabulous in This New Close-Up ...
ashortbeauty comments on May 31, 2018:
Ooh ahh
Ever been accused of hogging the sheets?
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 1, 2018:
Always! Lol
Any women in or near Sunderland who would like a evening out, give me a nudge.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 1, 2018:
Would love a night out. Unfortunately not near you
Happy first day of PrideMonth! ❤????
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 1, 2018:
Ty!!! ? ? ?
Admitted pedophile running for office. I give up! [yahoo.com]
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 1, 2018:
Fucking sicktard!! Where's the FBI in looking through his computers??
"Following" question: Is there a protocol for following someone?
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 1, 2018:
A follow to me it's just a follow. I usually follow sometime who I like what they have to say. Though Some of my followers are their because of attraction as they've told me so. It doesn't bother me. And I don't feel obligated you follow sometime who follows me hths
Hovering issue -- Has this happened to you?
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 1, 2018:
I hadn't noticed but haven't paid much attention.
Here's a good example of how religion screws everything up.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 1, 2018:
That is just sad and angers me
Horrible day yesterday on Facebook facing homophobic backwards thinking people so glad I found this ...
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 2, 2018:
You go with that knowledge!
I am alphabet soup.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 2, 2018:
I think it's all you. Parts that make up the whole. This coming from someone with SABD, PTSD, MD, DID, A/PA
Nina Simone-Tomorrow love this song. [youtube.com]
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 2, 2018:
Lovely
Big Bad Voodoo Daddy - Save my Soul [youtu.be]
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 2, 2018:
Me likey
This will be me in 20 yrs.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 2, 2018:
Ha! ?
I was onstage with Southern Culture On The Skids tonight! No joke, they asked for someone to come up...
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 3, 2018:
How cool for you!!!!?
8 Signs You Might Not Be The Relationship Type & Why That's Totally OK
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 3, 2018:
Nope not me completely
“Gravity” by Sara Bareilles is an emotional and breathtaking masterpiece. [youtube.com]
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 3, 2018:
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You're out on a date having a meal with someone.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 3, 2018:
Tell them because of it were me I'd want to know
exactly the discussion group I need ,battling addiction over 40 years first realized I might have ...
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 3, 2018:
First of all, I'm glad you're here. Secondly, congratulations on a whole week of sobriety!! :) I can tell you still hold love for your ex, like she has some type of hold on you. You have to let that go hun. She is not the end all to your life even after 20 years. I know 2 people who had 20 yr marriages and ended up having to move on. They've done so and for the better. Your life is in the balance. You also don't have to sit home "lonely and bored". There's a whole entire world out there beyond your circle of familiar friends, your ex, and the drug lifestyle. Don't look for the same type of woman you've dated in the past. Look for someone with self-worth, confident, gentle, caring and giving. You **are** worthy. Another thing is that you can come here whenever you need someone to talk to or to vent. That's what we're here for- each other. Here there is a chat room that stays open til midnight EDT "Singles/Mingle/Chat Group". Plus our chat room hour is from 6-7p EDT (can be extended if people want). Both of those are great for real time conversations when you're in need of or desire one.
[nytimes.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 4, 2018:
At least there's this: "The Supreme Court’s decision, which turned on the commission’s asserted hostility to religion, strongly reaffirmed protections for gay rights and left open the possibility that other cases raising similar issues could be decided differently." And Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, joined by Justice Sonia Sotomayor, dissented. Although I do find it stupid that we have to keep having this same argument. It's simple. If you want to make money on the open market, leave your business open to all
Cool Poster of Janis Joplin
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 4, 2018:
I want one
What an idiot! Why would you be dancing like that and carrying a firearm? [twitter.com]
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 4, 2018:
Wow, yeah I saw this on the news this morning. What an dumbass. I hope he's properly charged by homicide and the fbi
Ophiophagy - is a specialized form of feeding or alimentary behavior of animals which hunt and eat ...
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 4, 2018:
That's a weird word lol
Good morning. What's for breakfast? It's bacon quesadilla's for me.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 4, 2018:
Looks like a nice dinner
Officer says black, female lawmaker doesn't 'look like a legislator'
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 4, 2018:
Racist misogynistic idiots
Phenylketonuria: A disorder of purine metabolism where phenylalanine accumulates and results in ...
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 4, 2018:
That's a good one
Hey night owls. Checking in from Houston TX.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Hey Kris (yawn)
No Respect!
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Often. Now stop peeing on me!!!
If Marx came back
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 5, 2018:
?
I think a few of you can relate, too
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Yup.
As a food scientist here is a good word: Thixotropic, a property of a substance that when left to ...
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Thanks for the word for it
Houstonians! I'm not sure if you saw this so sharing it here.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Super idea for those close enough. Enjoy!!
If you don't like a show on TV or songs on the radio, then change the channel.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Agreed
These Clever Illustrations Of The 'Same' Words Should Help You Differentiate
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Those are grate ...Great
Manicism: Left handedness.
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Cute
Which abuse affects you most deeply; why, and how are you coping?
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 6, 2018:
You should make this a poll The sexual abuse affects me the worst. Maybe because it started at such a young age. Maybe because it was people I should have been ankle to trust. After that comes the emotional, social abuse. Then the physical. In that order
Seeing that many are living with the dreams of the 1970's here is young Dylan with Hurricane: ...
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 6, 2018:
Ahh the 70s
CROOCHIE-PROOCHLES This superb Scots dialect word is croochie-proochles—the feeling of discomfort...
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 6, 2018:
That's so much more fun than cramped
The TRUTH Why Modern Music Is Awful [youtube.com]
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 6, 2018:
Too true
So.....what is the BIG deal with the chat rooms?
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 6, 2018:
Chat rooms are fine. They just need more promotion. People are apprehensive, is all. Imo
Ba doom boom....
ashortbeauty comments on Jun 7, 2018:
That took me a sec lol
Are you racist?
ashortbeauty comments on Feb 20, 2018:
I'm like you, I have everything from Irish to Sioux. There's too much mixture to call out one from another. I always check the "other" button when asked that ridiculous question.
How often do you like it?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 2, 2018:
I enjoy sex in all of its ways. Mixing things up is exciting to me. So I said 5-6xs per week. The problem lies in finding that partner who is monogamous but highly sexual like me. Usually when someone has a high sex drive they're with multiple partners but I don't fly that way.
Would the world be a better place without religion?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 6, 2018:
I agree that we'd find some other reason to fight, but history shows us that most wars are fought over religions. Thereby making the world a better place.
A Few More Music...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 6, 2018:
Just had to steal 3 of em!
Is he just not into me?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 7, 2018:
Sounds like he either can't be honest with you or he has a shorter attention span and someone else grabbed his focus. Sorry hun. Just love yourself and move forward <3
Hello everybody! I reside in Jacksonville, FL, (NE Florida) looking forward to meeting new people ...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 8, 2018:
Hello James Anthony! I'm in Tampa but welcome. I hope you find lots of like-minded people to talk with here. (I know you will) ;)
Are you the only nonreligious person in your family? Or are some or all of them nonreligious?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 8, 2018:
Me and my middle child, my son, are the only ones. The rest of the family are fundamentalist Christians. It's hard.
Post Christians...do you still have dreams of church themes?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 8, 2018:
So from what I've gathered from y'alls helpful answers, since the abuse is related to the church, that it's the reason why I'm having "end of days" type dreams plus all the other crap. That makes sense. Ty
Do you guys think Rick Scott should sign the bill that Races the gun purchase age to 21 puts more...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I think it needs to be modified.I know from experience that more police officers at school does little to nothing in assuaging these things from happening. And arming teachers with 5.5 days of training, I think is a **huge** mistake. There will be more shootings this way. JMPO
Who loves puppers?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 9, 2018:
(L) (L) (L)
I decided to join this group and see how it goes.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 10, 2018:
Welcome
So who wants to put together a meet and greet for Florida.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 10, 2018:
If you know or come across other Floridians, share our group with them. The more members we have, the better our meet and greets will go 8-)
When you know how long it takes for the shower to get warm but you didn't realize how cold it got ...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 10, 2018:
Lol omg yeah that's a waker upper!!
What nice thing has happened to you in the last week?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 10, 2018:
I received a compliment from a beautiful woman :)
Is anyone in favor of bringing back exile as a legitimate sentence for certain crimes?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 10, 2018:
Then you're sending the pedophiles to Africa what did Africa do to deserve that? Or plug-in any other place other than say outerspace without their astronaut suits.
Hi! I'm a nonbinary, demisexual, partial transmale, but I live as an androgynous female.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Welcome :)
Should public nudity be legal?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Don't "stone me", but I think no. These are my reasons. I grew up in a cult with major sexual abuse. Another example is the Catholic and Baptist churches with their sexual abuse stories hitting the fan. Plus intranet child porn being at a high. All of that to say it just provides too much more "easy access", in my opinion. There are simply too many deviants in our precious USA.
Musicality. What is music?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 11, 2018:
"As long as you have music...You cannot be alone". This touched me. Thank you for sharing :)
Know Thyself (Romans 12:3-8) "How canst thine partner pleaseth thou, when thouest knows not how to ...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Nice meme, but I think your scripture is off
Got some photos of your local area's flora, fauna, or scenery?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 11, 2018:
And a few from Tampa Florida
Must.post.more.memes.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Getting close...I can taste it!
Do you over-think and over-analyze?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Sorry I'm in the boat with you. I mostly just open three or four apps and keep busy between them until it bores me. Hope some other tips help you
I just wanted to give everybody a big thank you the one who commented on my dilemma I was in about ...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 12, 2018:
:)
Hello everyone. I hope all is well. Have a great Monday!
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 12, 2018:
Hello :) I hope your day goes great!!
Hi my friends! I just joined today and still finding my way around.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 13, 2018:
Welcome! If you have any questions feel free to message me at any time. You can also post as there are a ton of helpful people here. :)
Do you read the bible to get knowledge about it, and to be able to understand why it is fiction?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 13, 2018:
I read the bible many times but as a Christian. Since then a handful of scripture here or there just to refresh my memory. It holds no bearing on whether or not you're a true atheist.
For the women- Do men scream out compliments to you out their car windows while you're walking on a ...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 13, 2018:
Yes, they have since I was 12. But I learned as I grew up that those were not the type of **males** I wanted to be around.
I'm on level 8 now!!
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Yay you!!! Ha! Level 9 is your bitch ;)
What makes you unique?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 15, 2018:
I'm a listener. Everyone likes to talk about themselves so listening tends to be rare, or so I've been told.
Stephen Hawking Will Explore Humanity's Future in One of His Last Film Appearances... [space.com]
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Had a weird popup hit my screen when I clicked your link. Just fyi
Really nice day in Tampa today.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 18, 2018:
Sounds like a good plan :)
Hey, ashortbeauty. I told you I'd join and look you up. Surprise!!!!!!
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 18, 2018:
It's good to see you :)
How do Freshmen-Juniors in high school have so much money, when most of them don't work?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 18, 2018:
I grew hoop poor too. Only difference was there were chores but they were expected, we didn't get paid for them. This was also back when babysitting could be done by any teenager. So most of my money came from there. I was and am a saver not a spender. I think the parents who just hand over money are robbing their kids from a good work ethic, which they'll need as adults. Jmho
I only have 400 some point til level 6.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Comment for you and check your messages ;)
Hello everyone just joined this site.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Glad to have you here! :)
I'm new here.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 22, 2018:
Agree with @akfishlady You're story is mine too. We're stronger together which is why this site is so great :)
Woooo hooooo hooozie!!! I made it to level seven!!! I would like to thank the little baby Jesus ...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 22, 2018:
It took me a month. I guess I truly need to look up from my cell
I once was found but now am lost.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 22, 2018:
I can relate
The TSA at Tampa Airport could have at least bought me dinner first...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 22, 2018:
Just outside of Tampa. Completely know what ya mean 8-)
It's the weekend, and there was a $500 bonus in your last paycheck. What will you do?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 22, 2018:
I would buy some more bras (cause I'm low). I have no significant other (or so I've been told). I don't want a room by myself. I'd probably let my kids go on a shopping spree
Thank you short beauty for the invite.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 23, 2018:
You megalomaniac , you. Mwahaha right back at ya. Welcome to Florida and double welcome to our growing group. You'll meet some great people here and at our event come summer. Yup where you post, click on event and let us know if you can make it :)
When I had asked for suggestions on what to do to treat myself, I was given a good one.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 23, 2018:
I hope you're enjoying both :)
What age were you when you First Questioned God?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 23, 2018:
I had some good questions for the youth pastor that he couldn't really answer with any more than for me to pray on it
Going camping out of town and geocaching for the weekend.
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Here's hoping you conquer the camping trip and come back in one piece with awesome photos :)
Do you like to eat a snack before bed?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 23, 2018:
I don't usually eat before bed because I'm not usually hungry then. I only eat when my stomach growls and then only until satisfied, never past full. It helped me lose and now maintain my weight hth
Being a bleeding heart liberal, I am appalled by the useless trophy hunting that goes on especially...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 24, 2018:
And remember the poor elephants :( They all sounds like douches to me.
I got 4 workouts done this week!! (pats self on back) Now, back to our regularly scheduled ...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 24, 2018:
Go you!!! Nicely done (h)
I can't choose...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 24, 2018:
Definitely cemetery. It makes the most sense
What do you do with the hours between midnight and 2 am when sleep is elusive ?
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 25, 2018:
I'm either on my cell on here or in a word game or I'm watching Friends or Family Guy and American Dad I know not really intellectual stuff between those hours here :p
Do grammar Nazis HAVE to correct people all the time or can they ignore the grammatical error ...
ashortbeauty comments on Mar 25, 2018:
From what I've experienced it's a "have to" kind of thing. It's either correct them or complain about it to someone else.

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