Hell yes. But I do not dwell. It is what it is & the cards I have chosen to play are not so bad.

Yes I do, but I try not to dwell on them. Nothing can be done to change the past, only can change what I do moving forward.

"There's only us, there's only this. Forget regret or life is yours to miss. No other road, no other way, no day but today." -- Jonathon Larson, Rent

Non, je ne regrette rien.

I don't know for sure. I've made mistakes and realized what I did wrong, but is that a regret? Have I ever caused harm to a person purposely , I don't think so, if I did that would be something to regret.

Regrets, to me, are situations where you knew the right thing to do, and failed to do it.

I have always been true to the light I had at any given time, so I have no regrets to speak of.

Disappointment on the other hand is doing the right thing and having shit outcomes anyway. I have LOTS of those.

However ... disappointments are often based on unrealistic expectations and I also had tons of those, courtesy of my fundamentalist origins. So a lot of my disappointments have yielded to more realistic expectations.

Some of my unmet expectations are still reasonable, but understanding as I now do that life is basically an absurdity, I no longer expect it to be reasonable for me or with me.

So problem solved ... for some given value of "solved", anyway.

I regret not noticing that my marriage was foundering before I did. But even that may have turned out for the best. It did for her, and maybe it will for me, as well.

I certainly think of missed opportunities from time to time. But one never knows for sure how things may have turned out had I made different decisions.

Oh yes. I have a lot of regrets. But no regrets about the fact that I did the best I could with what I knew at the time.

While snowshoeing, I met a hilarious, handsome and fit single man who lives near me. We took a shine to each other, flirting shamelessly (at least I was). He also loves hiking and is my age.

Why didn't I get his name and phone number? I had a pen and paper in my pack. Reluctantly, I watched him walk away.

"Maybe you'll see him again while hiking," my married hiking partner said. Fat chance.

I regret I didn't find Agnostic.com 50 years ago.

I regret not hugging my son enough.