Typical Sagittarius...

This is what you should have said

I think that if a woman turns you down based on your astrological sign, you should be grateful. I would hate to actually spend time with someone in person and then find out they're batshit crazy.

If you would have read your horoscope that day, you'd have known what to expect.

I'd say that you dodged a bullet.

Perhaps you can just look at it as having dodged a bullet.
If she believes in the zodiac, she's clearly not rational, or logically-minded.

Astrology is bunk. However, having said that, Sagittarius is, of course, the best sign, How shallow of her not to recognize that fact!

Don't ask me, I'm an Aquarius. We don't believe in that astrology nonsense. Word.

Astrology is just another hocus pocus religion, imo.

It does not surprise me...you Sagittarians are party people. At some point, most women want a man who is more likely to make a good husband and father...someone like a Cancer who's home is his castle and would rather stay home. In other words, a tom cat is fun and popular at parties, but they make poor husbands. Now you know

People are dumb + women are crazy= you can imagine a Venn diagram to explain the people on okcupid or plenty of fish, add a third circle for societal ignorance by choice and you've got an effective summary of the dating landscape. The trifecta.

dunno it can be scary accurate

Goofy.

Possibly just a way to nicely move in another direction.

Have you considered that this could have just been a strategy to soothen your pain? Last year some guy told me the same story and it made me think. By using some element that is really outside your influence the woman gives you the nice, dignified exit option: "There is essentially nothing wrong with you! I am not rejecting you because of your bad body odour, your drinking and smoking habits. My rejecting of you has nothing to do with ... you were just born on the wrong date!"

Hey I'm a Sagittarius! That explains my not dating!

Simple. She's not for you.

I don't spend much time with people that follow astrology, but I have met a few. I try to avoid them when I meet them.

Humans are capable of believing, and doing, ANYTHING imaginable.

True dat! But is it possible that she just used that as an excuse? Maybe she is trolling for a billionaire and she was not impressed with the size of your yacht.

Years ago, James Randi the magician, went to a collage and talked about astrology. He told the class that he had arranged for their horoscopes to be generated for them. After he gave everyone a copy of their special horoscope he asked them if it agreed with how they were portrayed. They generally agreed that the horoscope described them very well. HE GAVE THEM ALL THE SAME HOROSCOPE. Enough said.

Holy shit, dude! Talk about winning the lottery!

Think of all the ambiguous gray dating relationships that you have ever been in that went nowhere and took forever to get there. The flaky/wishy-washy/nutty/milquetoast person on the other end just couldn't communicate clearly that this wasn't working for them; wasting both of your lives. I know I frequently experienced that when I was in the dating pool anyway.

Whether she was honest or not; this gal made it clear to you early-on, in no uncertain terms, that you two would not be moving forward. If she was honest, than the reason is because she is bat-shit crazy and you didn't have to wait until you were emotionally invested to find this out. If she lied, than that is a win as well because the reason is that she is an awful person. Either way, as said elsewhere in this thread, you quickly dodged a bullet and other lost souls seeking companionship should be so lucky!

Don't Kavanaugh that girl, my friend.

I think some people say that, because they are not interested. Of course that is cheesy as a fake phone number. I never been handed a fake number, but I friend who a number of times.

Nothing like some good woo woo. Here is a great clip on this subject, by Dr. Neil DeGrasse Tyson.

i guess so! look, i met a guy who believed that everything in the universe is a conspiracy, primary among them on his list the moon landing. he had a nice home with a nice wife and kids, and he was kindly, if rather quiet, and as far as i am concerned totally insane, on that one little basis. i don't think his wife, who was my friend at the time, believed what he did. she laughed it off. i am not sure i could laugh such things off and your experience strikes me as par for the course, but par for the course is "people are strange."

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