Would you consider dating a boss or is it a bad idea?
Bad, badder, baddest idea ever. Don't even think about it. If you dig him/her that much you get a new job and then date him/her. Nothing good will come of it. NOTHING!!!
I think it is a bad idea. There is too much at stake. Now, maybe if you have been working for this person for a number of years and they are close to your age, then I might give it a "heads up!' To begin with, there is an imbalance of power, here. That matters, when we are establishing a relationship. To my way of thinking, a love relationship, should have balance of power, to be working well. A relationship with a boss, creates problems, if you are having a 'spat,' or possibly something goes wrong at the work place or conflicting feelings between other employees with the boss, if he/she shows preferential treatment, because of a relationship. And, the 'biggie' reason not to have a relationship, is if something happens that breaks up the relationship, you may need to be away from this person, so that you can move on...which would leave you to find a new job at a very bad time! Why set yourself up for such stress?
Not only a bad idea but normally against company policy plus against the law in some industries/states
I did, once. We had to be very careful not to give any sign of it at work but people did find out eventually - that may have led to problems had they felt I was receiving any preferential treatment, but fortunately I left the company (for other reasons!) shortly after it became common knowledge.
Which ever one of you is the boss should know better. It's against company policy unless it's a family or other small business that doesn't have a policy. Very bad idea.
The exception is: if it is in a large company, the people are in different business units, and the boss isn't in the management chain of the employee. Even then, generally a bad idea. Everyone will find out eventually. If it ends badly, the employee is more likely to be laid off, marginalized, or fired. The boss is likely to be sued, subject to disciplinary action, and / or fired.
I dated and later married a girl who was a supervisor of mine when I was 16. We didnt date until I was 20, but married at 21. BIG MISTAKE!
I briefly lived with my bosses personal assistant, I was 2IC, so when he was away she reported to me. Work caused tension, at work, not between us. I look back and feel this relationship was one of the positive things in my llife. The only time I have been "In love". So it is the person, not the work relationship that is the issue.
It was really great until she fired me because I caught her with another co-worker. I was number 2 out of 3. You really have to be careful, like gambling with only the money you can afford to lose. I also was her first choice to cover shifts for everyone and it was a big secret at work but her new BF was an open secret...go figure...
I would say it's a bad idea but bad ideas make the best stories.
Therefore you should do it if you want a story and not do it if you want your job.