Also @admin way to go on the "thin" error

Again, try being a 5'6" male in this environment, and then tell me how great your attitude is.

And did I make a mistake in thinking that, because I'm on an internet forum, I could be open and honest and show some frustration.

But its easy to use my frustration, say that makes it my fault, and get back to eating rice krispie treats.

Have a cookie for being happy. I'm glad you found happiness. Tell me that you wouldn't be frustrated if you were in my place. And its clear that attitude has little to do with it, because I don't get the opportunity. I'm 5'6", remember?

Lets see....you tell me that you've never had problems in your relationships, and then you tell me about the two times you've been married.

How my post comes across? I'm expressing frustration about a challenge, not trying to hit on anybody.

@Kurt Maybe you missed the bit where I said that I am 5' 6". Height has never been an issue when I was single and nor has it ever been relative to any break up of a relationship.
Your height is not important. Your attitude is.

@Uncorrugated so you've never been frustrated and had the nerve to express it? In truth, you have no idea what my attitude might be, nor i yours. For whatever reason, however, your first post was hostile and unhelpful. Well, I guess this is the internet. Still, I am shocked to find the of people in this thread and elsewhere who take just a few sentences that I've written and have the ego to suppose that they know me. How do you know I wasn't in the middle of a horrible day and uncharacteristically blew off some steam?

Your most recent response is much more helpful, and I thank you for it. I am glad you have not had the experiences that I have had. But the fact that you didn't have my experiences doesn't mean that my experiences weren't real. It is disappointing that you then fall back on your critique of my "attitude," which (I hope you will admit) in fairness you have precious little evidence to use for that purpose.

Do you really think that none of my points are valid, or in some way accurately reflect my experiences? Do you really think that I'm just a jerk who doesn't realize how good he has it?

@Kurt Your original post opened with the assumption that women will think they will look stupid - a rather derogatory assumption that implies women find a mans height more important than his personality.
You then and fuel to the fire by adding "Its just that you can't get past your heels long enough to realize..." and you are surprised when others accuse you of having an attitude.

So no, on the information you have made available, I don't think your points are valid, but they probably do reflect your experience. And no, I don't really think that you're just a jerk who doesn't realize how good he has it? I don't believe you have it so good, but you do appear to come across as a jerk.

Have a read at your post again and have a think about how it will be percieved by others and have a look at the other responses on here - you are in a minority of one of people who think that height is a defining factor in relationships.

Very interesting. Thanks for your thoughtful response. It is much more helpful than "get over yourself."

@Kurt

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I love that advice. Don't freaking tell me about being whiny when you have no idea what my journey has been like. Who do you think you are?

All I know is what I'm told. Do I really only attempt to strike up a conversation with women who mention that they wear heels?

sigh No.

The heels were a metaphor in my original post.