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I have tried a couple of other date sites and so many profiles start out with must love Jesus, or love the lord. That's why I am not there anymore. I don't know what else to put here for now but I'm working on it.

Gemini-1947 7 June 10
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I think your companion looks conflicted about your loyalty.

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My dog thinks she is a cat. And I have a cat that thinks he is a dog. He was a newborn feral cat that found his way under my fence and into the yard. He had no food or water and was about to die. Bailey had picked him up and carried him up onto the deck and was licking and cleaning him when I found them. I bought him in and took care of him and now Bailey and Baty (black cat) are best friends. They eat and sleep and play together all the time.

@gemini1947 Big dogs are often gentle Nannies. She is lovely.

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It can BE a dating site.
Maybe I should change my profile:
"Looking for a nice lady who does not love the lord...in fact HATES the lord!
Wait, doesn't CARE about the lord.
No that's not it...doesn't like people who love the lord.
No I mean, there IS no lord so someone who knows there IS no lord!
Yeah, that's it: I want a nice lady who doesn't HAVE a lord, at least not THAT one, because he's not there...invisible! I mean not in existence!
Zero! Nada!
Of course if she loves some OTHER lord, that's fine.

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the thing about ag dot com is it has its dating-site side but it also is a community, and the community is the best thing that could happen to a dating site. talking about what you want in a mate just leads to people trying to be what you want, and your trying to be what they want. talking about everything else in the world, from politics to music to whatever, lets you actually get to know other people a bit and maybe form a bond more naturally. instead of instant gratification followed by inevitable disappointment, you get something more realistic: the maturing of relationships, whether or not one of them also becomes a romantic partnership.

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Exactly. I've had that observation rolling around in the back of my mind for awhile but you've articulated it so well. There's a truly symbiotic relationship between the broader community and the narrower dating aspect of the site.

@vertrauen Some of the best and longest lasting relationships are based on friendship. Take your time and get to know someone. You might find that Pot O' Gold at the end of the rainbow.

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Lol, that dog looks bigger than you! Welcome! And good luck!

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On your dating profile say you're into preparing French and far east cuisine. a big fan of Ask Heloise housework, gardening, and insist on washing the dishes. Add you need a traveling companion with a passport. Couldn't hurt if some of those things are true. Don't spare descriptive adverbs and adjectives. Run the profile through a spell and grammar checker so you won't sound semi-literate. Avoid complex, compound sentences as well as common vulgarities.

Then scroll down to the bottom of your profile, see which members live nearby and send them a "Hello neighbor."

A crowd of dewy eyed women will darken your doorstep, some of them moaning in lust "You do dishes?" Put the dog in the kennel; break out the designer condoms -- the glow in the dark lemon flavored ones with the racing stripes. Double points for a clean bathroom.

If you ironed the sheets, they'll never leave.

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First of all I’d like to say welcome to the site, and to let you know that I think you have one of the most beautiful dogs I’ve ever seen...and that’s from a cat person! Secondly, I wish you the very best of luck in your quest to find a partner here, keeping in mind that this is not principally a dating site, but a social platform for those of us who do not believe in god. In that respect you will not have to plough through all the Jesus lover’s messages which you’ve encountered on other sites. Regardless of your reasons for joining, I trust you will join a few groups, there’s bound to be something which will interest you, and add your views and comments. You may not find the partner you hope for, due to the randomness of our locations, which traverse not just the USA, but the entire globe, but I hope you enjoy the craic anyway!

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The one dating site I have tried has been good in that I have met one man who has become a dear friend (but romance was not to be), but it has been challenging to wade through the profiles to find those who are NOT religious, and that is a critical component of who I seek!

Your dog is beautiful!

Rustee Level 7 June 10, 2019
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I can't help but comment on your beautiful dog. S/he had a really intelligent, yet thoughtful expression.

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Welcome to the site. You'll find a lot of good and interesting people here.

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I do not look at this site as a dating site, but it could be. I avoid anyone who claims you must love the lord to be in a relationship with them.

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I would not even consider letting a person close to me who embraced myths as a foundation of their life.

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There's a ton of sites out there, don't lose hope. I have several friends who have met their S/O or husband/wife on dating sites. T hat is where I met my husband, we just celebrated our 7th anniversary. It is very important to weed out people that you won't be compatible with, so start with your strengths. Some people may see being an atheist as a negative, I don't. As a rule, I don't date Christians or many other religious people, because we just wouldn't be a good fit.

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Even some people who classify themselves as non-religious have something in their profile about God. WTF?

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Yes, 'tis a common issue most of us that are single have to deal with . Ugh !

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Good luck. Have a blessed day! jk 🤣

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I'm an introvert. Dating? How could that get done without the internet? I could search all I want but she like me is probably inside! LOL!!! I've been on most of the dating sites and found it hard to find someone who didn't need me to be "god fearing" and love jesus. Everyone I dated ended badly. I needed a like belief and that's hard to find on the regular sites. You could meet someone here if you just talk and make friends.

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I agree. It's so sad. There are allot of good people living in the nursery tale. Welcome to this site. I've met many news only be friends here, none of whom are praying for me. It's very refreshing.

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Welcome, very lovely pup there. Who is she/he?

Amisja Level 8 June 10, 2019
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You only need One who does not.....

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put, "this is a fun site, but there is no one within 500 miles of me."

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As far as meeting people to date on this site, it all really depends on where you live or if you are willing to date someone LD. Some locations allow local dating options with members of this site and some don't. I am not familiar with the concentration of Agnostic's members in Colorado, but my guess is that your chances of local dating options there are probably about average, which is, it's possible but not good.
Visited your profile and checked the listings of nearby female members. Not good, just as I guessed it. You have one female member your age, practically the same as you, in your area, but she hasn't been on the site for three months. You may as well message her and see what happens. Good luck, hope you have more success than me on here.

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some put because easier to con those who believe

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Welcome to the site.

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Too me if they live the lord or Jesus how can they have time to love you? If all their other relationships have failed on some level maybe they are in love with the wrong lord or jesus who lords over them!

Morality and ethics along with romantic relationships are part of you or not! If you need religion to governed your life you are no longer moral or ethical!

Morality and ethics are inborn as humans, we only learn hate, immortality, and unethical behavior by our environmental lessons by other humans and their treatment of other humans and creatures of this planet!

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I love Cheesecake, the god of cheese. And Chocolate. The god of,,,,,,,,,,,choc..........?

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