They may each be open to meeting men, but that doesn't mean they want to meet you, or me. They want to meet men who are interesting and attractive, and that doesn't include everybody.

I have found that men talk a good game...but when it comes to actually doing something like meet for lunch, then not so much. I try to be accommodating with schedules and meeting half way, but that hasn't helped. It is very frustrating.

I don't get what's puzzling to you about this. Unless you think they're all lying, which they might have decided to do at the bi annual womens "how should we fuck with men this time" convention.

Are they as they represent themselves? None of them (6 so far)have been, yet, including one Very nasty predator. Are they relatively close? 400 or so miles away is fine, New Zealand not so much. Are we compatible in any other areas? For example, you adore rock-climbing, I have several complete joint replacements....can I have dinner waiting when you return? And so on.....

I sincerely hope so they are a awesome bunch just don't live close to me

I can only speak for myself & say yes, I am open to meet. Just need opportunity & a flexible schedule.

Just because she won’t dance with you doesn’t mean she’s a lesbian...

I think there is a disconnect between really wanting to have a partner but also being very dismissive of the market open to us.