I find it hard to share chocolate. It has to be someone very meaningful in my life to get some of it.

I realized just how selfish I am two weeks ago.

I like a mildly spicy red sauce....oh, you mean "selfish", not "shellfish", sorry. I like to think the airlines are 1000% correct, you put on your air mask first, then help those around you.

Every night when I'm taking my bubble bath, with soft music playing, and a glass of wine... That's when I'm selfish... Do not disturb.. and I mean it!

Well if I had a partner I would not allow him to move in. Is this selfish? Probably. I need my space If I want to leave dishes in the sink I will and I am not going to give away my remote control to the tv. I acknowledge this is all selfish but I'm good with that. I've raised my children, I don't want to adopt a grown up one.

I'm kinda lazy. I always have so much I should be doing, but I'm buggered, so I sit on my arse instead.

I don't think I am overall. I try to practice self care and set boundaries but not selfish.

Just out of curiosity, is this question in anyway related to, or influenced by the writings of Ayn Rand?

I am not selfish. People call me thoughtful, loving and giving.

Some may consider me self-centered because I refuse to let a man stop me from hiking and exercising.

Also, I refuse to eat preserved or processed meat, junk food or other sugary, fatty crap Americans love.

I admit my desire to "take turns" is selfish....my way of negotiating intimate tender joys