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I am finally moving out of Shawn's house ! Awhile back, he was drunk, of course and he gave me 30 days to leave. I have been packing and moving my stuff, every day I have no work. I have moved multiple loads already, thanks to Bob, who I met here. Very soon, I'll be living Hagerstown, MD. I'll be working at my job in Hershey, PA, until I find something down here. It's a 2 hour drive from here to there, but it's better than dealing with Shawn !

joantheloon 6 Oct 2
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Now that you are out of Shawn’s grasp, stay out. Expect him to try and lure you back at some point. Don’t! Be cautious if you still have things to move. Drugs, alcohol and religion create some very dangerous people.

He says he doesn't want me back, the boozing and smoking have to go, if I were to ever go back !

@joantheloon, they will not go Joan. Time to move on and forget this relationship. Both alcoholism and smoking are probably the hardest legal habits to give up, let alone both or them combined. I know you have set yourself up with a long commute and change is difficult, especially if it was a long term relationship, but you deserve better and you will never find it if you keep going back to try and salvage what is not healthy for either of you.

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Wishing you the best of luck and glad you're free from Shawn.

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Best of luck.

1of5 Level 8 Oct 2, 2019
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I know Hagerstown. A favorite uncle lived in Mt. Airy (Walkersville). I spent many happy hours with him and we often visited a friend in Hagerstown. Ft. Detrick is there and, supposedly, they are into bio-research.

Ft. Detrick is in Frederick.

@Bob_60 This was in 1970, sorry I got some facts mixed up.

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Have you ever lived alone, not going from dependency to dependency? You would learn a lot.....

Yes, I have

@joantheloon and you know this Bob will be an improvement how?

@AnneWimsey He doesn't smoke, or binge drink like Shawn and he is an Atheist, like me. Shawn is a Southern Baptist !

@joantheloon well, best wishes to you both!

Perhaps sometimes atheists must have faith in each other.

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Congrats honey good luck

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