Unfortunately we do not have the ability to check and see if another member is ok. There was a member here who used to post often, and was very active on this site. Her last post was about living with an abusive husband. She asked for advice on whether to expose his abuse. I and several others posted that she should move out for her own safety. Sadly that was the last post that she had on this site. No one knows whether she is safe or if she was able to escape her abusive husband. I tried to reach out to admin to see if there was a way to check on her safety, but that was not possible. It has been months and i worry that something unpleasant may have happened to her.