Another Christian girlfriend dumped me again. Because I can not be saved.
It's happened to me 5 times now. All the Christian girlfriends promised me they would not try to convert me, BS. I live in an area of a Bible belt and limited to non believers options and suspect my hand is turning gay.
I want to worship women, can I be helped?
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I'm so lucky to be living in godless western New York. There aren't any women trying to save me from anything.
BitFlipper
Level 8
Dec 10, 2020
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Are you sure that is why they are dumping you? 🥴
Canndue
Level 8
Dec 9, 2020
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Her best friend, is the wife of her pastor. She is afraid I will end up in hell without giving it all up for the lord. At least in hell I will be with most of my Heroes and love ones.
I think you are beyond any help there. I tell you what, how about you come and live in Australia, you will be hard presses of finding any Christian girlfriends who want to save you, unless of course you specially advertise for one.
Jolanta
Level 9
Dec 9, 2020
1
I was a hit with the ladies living in Perth for 6 months. No mention of God anywhere and loved their humor.
@Castlepaloma WOW, Oh really, a hit with the ladies you say?
@Triphid Sandgropers are a very peculiar breed.
Good luck. Maybe try some Meetup groups?
BufftonBeotch
Level 8
Dec 9, 2020
0
It's an artist haven out here in Lunenburg NS. Artist groups I will dive into.
Teaching sounds sexy,... Lol, just kidding.
I live in a red state with absolutely no one to date!
RobinGray
Level 6
Dec 9, 2020
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I live in a country that mostly cannot be bothered with church going and still cannot find anyone to date. I wonder whether it may be me?
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over & over and expecting a different result duuuuhhhhh.
Look in the mirror!
AnneWimsey
Level 9
Dec 9, 2020
7
To prepare your whole life for heaven, seems insane for sure. Luckily each one of them, were short months lived. Where non believer parners lasted years.
That's a good reminder.
That scenario happens with all believers I've been involved with.
They start off saying that your non-belief doesn't matter, then they turn on you for it.
Imho, they're ALL liars and cannot be trusted.
KKGator
Level 9
Dec 9, 2020
7
If they can claim to witness God, they can lie just about anything.
Then stop being fooled by these liars! Any religion then it must be good bye. Because of another issue my friend turned on me and started calling me names on a public site (ZPG.immigration issues). I then put the pieces of the puzzle together and realized it was he that had a problem. There had been signs that I had missed. There is a person on this site that is in the same boat with personal issues that blame others. AND we even have a president with major personal problems where he has the need to blame others.
@Castlepaloma Precisely why I've chosen to remain single and at peace with it.
Years ago I had a friend who had the same problem. He was good looking and very athletic and never had a problem finding women. But, after several weeks of dating for some strange reason they broke up because the woman was a flaming christian. I wondered why he didn't find out about their religiosity at the beginning. That was until I had actually met one of the women. She was very attractive, worked for a local environmental organization and was not religious.
JackPedigo
Level 9
Dec 9, 2020
3
You could reverse it and try to deconvert her....
Canndue
Level 8
Dec 9, 2020
1
It doesn't work arguing with a Christian that there is no personal God. Because it's like a Santa Claus for senior Adults.
You suspect your ‘hand is turning gay’? Either you are or your not.
CuddyCruiser
Level 8
Dec 9, 2020
2
Maybe 2% of me is bi sexual. Been called metro sexual.
Try picking up drunk girls in bars. You'll meet a better class of people than at church.
barjoe
Level 9
Dec 9, 2020
3
Covid shutting down bars. It's mostly Christians washing their sins away.
Sorry, you need a new place to find women. Try a liberal state.
dalefvictor
Level 8
Dec 9, 2020
1
Nationalism is worse.
Sounds like you need to move to a non bible belt area. So your hand is gay, then watch women on women porn to help your hand action.
xenoview
Level 8
Dec 9, 2020
1
Ha ha, I guess the hand is all in the mind, I only think about women. So that makes me straight.
If they are literal Christians, you can understand the logic, when they believe they will be reunited for eternity with their families, why would they want to commit, most of all, to someone who is lost. And even if they are not literal Christians, you have to figure they will probably see you as a project.
The usually advice is to join atheist social groups to meet like minded people, but I think we can safely assume that you do not have that sort of thing in your area, or the question would not be asked. So you have two options, one, move, or two, if that is not possible, start a atheist/agnostic social group of your own. You may be surprised by how many closet unbelievers there are out there just waiting for someone to make the first move.
Fernapple
Level 9
Dec 9, 2020
2
Sounds like a good idea, bring non-believers out of the closet.
Don't want to move , some of the most beautiful beaches in the world are here. High in friendliness and low in covid.
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