It is nice when you know somebody for so long they are family. When you visit they allow you to be yourself, with no masks.
I am always respectful. I've known some of my friends for decades and still don't make myself at home.
I'm the same way
I'm a good guest but my bestest friend and I just show up and cook dinner in each others house with or without the other lol
I was at a party in college and found our kitten in the fridge. Thankfully there is plenty of air for a cat that small. Poor kitten.
(No one put her there - I'm sure she jumped).
that happened to me once. She was sleeping in the crisper
@WizardBill It was a party - many people - I'm certain someone reached in for a beer - and in she went. She was so fluffed out. Poor baby!
When I was young I would just walk into my friend's house never knock. One day his dad stopped me and said I would like to talk to you. He said that he really liked that I felt so comfortable about just coming in and that it had reminded him of his youth when the world was not so paranoid.
I once had a female friend come over to my place and she said she was hungry, so I told her to help herself. She proceeded to pull out a chair, sit down, and open the refrigerator door and just inspected everything I had, shelf by shelf. I asked her, "would you like me to tilt the fridge for you too?"
I don't get it. Are you saying that they eventually raid your refrigerator? If that's what your saying then don't hold back. Their brave enough to challenge your goodness with disrespect? Then tell them get out of there. Don't smile or laugh or giggle. Be serious about it.