Whats your dream date ?
Going out for Coffee in a Red Cup?
Depth of Conversation, Hysterical Laughter, and some physical touch (hand holding, snuggles and kisses)
Me and my gal poking needles into god's testicles.....
@Muzaffer1 Being that there is no god, I'll never have my testicle poking dream date, which saddens my heart, nor realize what punishment may have come.
Video games and fast food. But I start off wining and dining like every one else just to give a good impression
Not having been on a date since 1981, any date would be a dream date.
Maybe you should shave your beard ?
@VAL3941 No, I wouldn't. If they can't take me as I am, then I don't want to mess with them. I mean, I'll clean up and get a trim, but that's about it. Besides, I was married until 2 years ago. I can wait. And if nothing happens, I'll deal with that, too.
Sorry, thought you were a profesional singleton. Lol.
Some combination of Sofia Vergara, Rachael Maddow and Miss September from 1974. It would include the Biltmore in LA, biking in Santa Monica and several hours of stunt sex in the Hilton at Dana Point. You asked.
I don't know about oppressive. I'm 61 so the likelihood of me having this date is rather remote. I was tempted to relate some "soul mate" or "love at first sight" fantasy to pander to the female constituents of this group but I couldn't do it. Knowing Maddow is gay is both disheartening and uplifting, sad because I can never attain her love, uplifting because of my awe of her as a human being.
Lately all I get is dream dates, or dates in dreams... It is late. So, dream date. Sharing dreams, sharing food, good conversation. Doesn't matter where or what kind of food. Just enjoying each other's company and some kind of fun activity.
Two or three hours of conversation in front of a fire with a bottle of wine.
Although such a written dream exercise could be fulled with an elaborate experience rich in physical detail, exotic food smells and sights, chemical electricity, and rich sounds with descriptive emotional responses portraying reactions to each other's compatibility, all positive components of a dream date, I will distill this response to what I most value:
Encountering a brilliant and responsible woman who shares my respect for reality and disdain for superstitions. One who shares my dry sense of humor and finds the Trump plutocracy as abhorrent as I. A woman deeply immersed in the beauty of our scientific discoveries with a lust for problem solving and further understanding the relationships of reality and our world’s ecosystems. Then onto hours of enlightened discussions where we share ideas and respect for each-others devotion to finding the best (most informed and reasoned) outcome for a spectrum of issues and paths of discovery that may change (for the better) the world we share. - - Think this qualifies as a “dream” (as in ain’t gonna happen) date. - -
She was in a lucid dream, the best kind of dreaming.
I don't really know. No one has ever asked me that before.
Hm. The bed of a pickup truck, a pile of blankets, pillows, a starry night, a little romantic music on the radio, wafting out of the cab, and me and my date cuddling up close in the back of the truck. ?
Meeting a girl at a hotel in Bruges, Belgium - Connecting with her and then spending several days exploring the city, eating chocolate, cheese and drinking rich red wine. Of course, kissing on a personal canal tour at night.
(I did once meet a girl at a hotel in Bruges late at night. We DID connect by conversation. Very cute girl and a very sweet conversation. The next morning I couldn't find her. She'd checked out.)
Ouch !!
A dream date, in my view, only happens with somebody with whom you've some familiarity socially via friends or family or arranged (via internet for example) to meet at least once. Aquaintance meeting really isn't a 'date'. I don't think arranged blind dates are either.
That said, I like to gamble a bit like making dinner for her, maybe at her place or visa versa; followed by a night out for some kind of live entertainment, movie or even pool or bowling. Back at her door or mine, maybe a hug. Whoever initiated the date should be the one to await a call/contact to see if there is further interest.
Yes, I know. ... a very strange man.
I will reserve it for my dreams... reality is a different place to be.
Skiing during the day, then going out for dinner, then walking around the town, then drinks in the hot tub. I live in Ohio (originally from Colorado) so this never happens but one can dream.
I went from Mecca's of California to Michigan Lakeshore so I understand dramatic change as well! Haha Roll with it brotha!
@Redcupcoffee I've lived here for twelve years now and I don't mind it but I do miss the mountains. I was a ski instructor when I lived in Colorado, so it would be nice to go back at some point. I know there are "ski areas" in Ohio but I'm afraid I would be sorely disappointed haha.
@Ohioexpastor unlike you, I am a girl of the ocean and the warmth, not so much of the mountains and the snow.
What area of CA? I am from San Luis Obispo area, Morro Bay, but my family spans up into Oregon. My mother is from Monterey. I was also raised in Hawai'i off and on throughout my life into my teens.
I attended UCLA the last, near decade I was in Calif so during those years I resided in Westwood Village, West LA, Santa Monica and Malibu area.
@Ohioexpastor Ah yes. I know Fullerton. Ah so you are familiar with my neck o' the woods, eh?
It's not a date.
Something that doesn't have that awkward sense of obligatory... stuff.
"Schmarna?"
"Scubadebup!"
"Myr myr nirm..."
"...Yeah, yeah totally..."
You know what I mean? It's seamless and the conversation just flows as fuck, dude - is what I'm trying to say. It doesn't feel like a date, or a raisin.
It's fun, and y'all having too much fun to be involved in trying to define it or put it into a category, but you know you like each other so there's not any mixed or misleading things. And then you kiss or blow each other or whatever. Whatever's cool, whatever's balanced. Some of these recent patch updates, ya know?
Fuck if I know, man...