Why might a man and a woman who are:
At least sufficiently intelligent
Perfect for one another
end up never, ever finding each other?
I think if we apply:
Occam's Razor and
the Mediocrity Principal,
I think it's pretty clear that the answer is
Answer fits post. Well done.
So if they're unintelligent, they will find each other?
@kenriley Lol.
What @SkotlandSkye said. =] Circumstances keep people from finding each other. Other circumstances keep people from each other.
Yep
Distance and there are a lot of people in this world.
Usually it's due to eyes being closed.
I see
For example, the perfect person may be in India or China whilst you are in the USA and you will never meet them. Or, the person may be right in your city but your paths never cross or they get hit by a bus and cease to exist in your timeline. It could also be that you consider yourself in a different socio-economic class than the person and therefore never give them a second glance or, conversely, don't approach them out of fear of rejection. Finally, the perfect person may be a redhead....and you don't think gingers are really humans....
An example of "perceived lifestyle" would be rejecting someone because they had tattoos and/or ride a Harley. An example of "actual lifestyle" would be rejecting someone because they smoke and/or gamble every weekend at the local casino.
Dave Alvin did a great song - Abilene - kinda sums it all up for a lot of people I think.
. Then too it depends on what one is looking for, or looking at all.
The flip side to being single for anyone is that there are reasons why.
May be them....may be you....May be a combination of the two......which, by the way, is another great song.
Been puzzling over my single-ness......I think I still need to grow; went to a Church many years back where they spoke of AFGO: another fucking growth opportunity!
Single is not all bad......but a little male attention is so much fun!
Distance and/or time and search engine limitations
Probability. It is possible to toss a coin 29 times and have it come up heads every time, just not very probable. Assuming there are a dozen perfect partners for you out there, the probability of finding them is about the same. One in world population divided by 12. And before someone says the population is half male and half female so that doubles the odds, the non desired gender is still there standing in the way so that doesn't change a thing.
Location... opportunity... common interests. Check this out...
Physical attraction.
I can't believe you said that
@buzz13 Why?
@Lysistrata What I inferred from your post is that looks are most important to you. Really? Women say men only want them for looks and sex, they never for want them for their minds.
@buzz13 I'm sorry for the confusion. They're not all that important to me, but I think they are to a lot of men. Deal-breaker important.
@Lysistrata OK my mistake, sorry for the comment, I meant no harm...lol
@buzz13 no harm.