You know... at times I just sit back and observe some of the posts on this site that are considered to be trending/popular, and what I see sometimes really makes me question the mentality of the secular humanist movement. It's all good to share memes in which to share a good laugh, but I can't help think that the messages in some of these memes are actually hurting society as a whole.
Take for instance the recent debate in America over getting the Covid vaccine or not. When are people going to wake up and realize that the more you harass and poke fun of those who have so far resisted getting the Covid vaccine, doing such will only make them resist you even more. How's such an approach like that productive? Small wonder why my country is in the mess it's in, and at times like that I get to see firsthand how childish the two political extremes can be.
Blaming one category of citizens isn't helpful either, while alot of conservatives out there are behind the anti-vaxx movement, there are also alot of Democrats out there who have refused the Covid vaccine. I know, I've got anti-vaxxers in my family... and every bloomin' one of them are Biden-supporting Democrats, in particular my mother. Speaking of my mother, over the weekend I had a nice long chat with her over the Covid vaccine, and after taking the time to fully explain how helpful and relatively safe the Covid vaxx is minus any personal attacks over her decision on the matter so far, in the end I was able to convince her to set up an appointment to get the vaccine. That's how you make actual progress, by showing some frickin diplomacy and self restraint, and not by bullying or belittling others, because as soon as you resort to personal attacks the other person will simply conclude you're a jerk and in the process will totally tune you out. They wouldn't be wrong about that either, sadly there are alot of pushy jerks among the pro science community.
Look folks... I know the vaccine-hesitant crowd can get on your nerves, as they surely do get on my nerves after awhile too, but a little diplomacy and lending a non-judgmental ear can go a long way. In taking that path I was able to convince someone to my argument, and believe me when I tell you that my Catholic mother can be one tough customer when she has her mind made up to something. How about actually trying to be a true humanist and at least attempt to help out others instead of resorting to personal attacks on their character and crude assumptions? This insanity and arguing over the Covid vaccine has got to stop, someone needs to step in and show some diplomacy and a genuine desire to bring about positive change. If nothing changes, I fear my country is in store for even darker times, with even more division among the citizens than what is being witnessed now, not a pleasant thought.
Knowing the overall mentality of this site, I know full well that most members who come across this post will conveniently skim over it without so much as giving even a bit of consideration to the point I tried to make, but if it gets the attention of even one person then I will consider it worth my time. In life big things and changes often require small steps taken in order to take progress to the next level. Progress cannot be achieved if everyone is arguing and bickering with each other over trivial issues. If you want someone to embrace your views and ideas, be willing to at least hear them out when they wish to share with you their own viewpoints. In other words, play fair, and if you choose to not do so then the other side has no rational or reasonable obligation to take you seriously. As for me, now onto talking to and convincing other family members that the Covid vaccine is largely beneficial...
what is the ethnic profile of the vaccine deniers? hello? anybody home? white lives matter
@SpikeTalon ...............fascinating
government has one righteous function only. the protection of the mass of us who are innocents from the minority of us who would commit violence, crime, or fraud against us. and by slowly evolved common law, protection of us innocents has been extended through the civil law of torts to include the further job of protecting us from wrongful injury by the ignorant, the stupid, the negligent or the indifferent among us. thus was the compact of government forged to make civilization ( for those"progressives" among you who don't quite grasp the concept of civil society ).. as medical science developed protections from some deadly diseases through intention of vaccines, the law followed so that those among us who could not even grasp the basic premises of the new science were not empowered to defeat it. lest we all die. Since 1827, first in the Boston public schools, this has been so in this country . Protection. not the redistribution of personal wealth to forge a phony "equality", not the assurance of privilege for established corporate or business elites ....... ... protection, including protection from the increasingly planet threatening mass stupidity, more and more the dominant controlling force of a devolving society ... that is the core of our failing civilization. there are many ways to compel that morons get vaccinated. see the movie "CONTAGION" (2011). it eloquently makes the case that for vaccination, in extreme circumstances marshal law is called for
"I will consider it worth my time" It was worth your time by your criterion, but not worth mine. I have made a note to avoid your future posts.
The most-indoctrinated proselytizers are also the most verbose.
@SpikeTalon ...............then why are you awake?
And then you went and spoiled it all by saying something stupid like:
"Knowing the overall mentality of this site, I know full well ..."
Everybody should get the vaccine unless they have allergy problems from them. I’ve had both rounds of the Moderna and will get the booster when it becomes available.
I don’t believe in tormenting those who haven’t taken the vaccine but I have no problem with business mandating vaccine as terms for employment.
Like you I am fully vaccinated but have been unable to convince my wife and daughter into being vaccinated. I have tried like you and my wife is finally beginning to change her mind . My daughter will be forced to get the vaccine soon because she is a teacher in a school that has a gymnasium and pool for the general population and this is the requirement in NYC.
Good post. It is based on the predetermination that the "official", authoritative vaccine directives are based on verified science. That predetermination is erroneous.
Natural immunity is superior to that produced by MRNA genetic manipulation.
meh, they’ll figger it out i guess, when they’re on their eighth booster shot, and paying $15 a loaf for bread…
@PBuck0145
In what way is an mRNA vaccination “genetic manipulation”? Please explain to me in biologically meaningful detail how the mRNA COVID vaccine allegedly reverse transcribes and integrates into the genome. All it does is get translated into peptide product as with any other mRNA transcript. The mRNAs your genome makes aren’t genetically manipulating you. Why would a COVID vaccine have this magical property? It’s not a retrovirus.
And while you’re at it show how natural immunity is superior to being vaccinated by the mRNA vaccines? And why contracting COVID and risking death or long term debilitating effects would be preferable to the relatively minor side effects of a vaccine.
@Scott321 [directorsblog.nih.gov]
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IMHO, history will show that those who have recovered from Covid-19 infections have superior immunity to those who have submitted to MRNA genetic manipulation.
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@PBuck0145
First we can ditch the wiki link on what mRNA is as it does nothing to bolster your point. Maybe you should study it to find out what mRNA is so you stop with the genetic manipulation nonsense.
Not sure if you thought Collins was agreeing with you in the other link. First he says: “All vaccinated individuals had received two doses of the Moderna mRNA vaccine. This vaccine works by prompting a person’s cells to produce the spike protein, thereby launching an immune response and the production of antibodies.”
Because that’s what mRNA does. Where is the support for your assertion (twice now) for genetic manipulation. mRNAs without steps of reverse transcription into DNA or integration into the genome don’t manipulate genetics. Sorry.
Do mRNA vaccines have these?
Now Collins says other interesting stuff:
The important acronym RBD explained: “… the receptor binding domain (RBD), a key region of the spike protein that studs SARS-CoV-2’s outer surface. This RBD is especially important because the virus uses this part of its spike protein to anchor to another protein called ACE2 on human cells before infecting them. That makes RBD a prime target for both naturally acquired antibodies and those generated by vaccines.”
Moving on:
“The new evidence shows that protective antibodies generated in response to an mRNA vaccine will target a broader range of SARS-CoV-2 variants carrying “single letter” changes in a key portion of their spike protein compared to antibodies acquired from an infection.” What does that mean to you?
And: “More importantly, the data provide further documentation that those who’ve had and recovered from a COVID-19 infection still stand to benefit from getting vaccinated.” So vaccination good even if previously infected? Ok then.
Also: “Importantly, the vaccine-elicited antibodies targeted a broader range of places on the RBD than those elicited by natural infection... What’s more, antibodies acquired with the help of a vaccine may be more likely to target new SARS-CoV-2 variants potently, even when the variants carry new mutations in the RBD.”
Oh and: “A third difference is that natural infection only exposes the body to the virus in the respiratory tract (unless the illness is very severe), while the vaccine is delivered to muscle, where the immune system may have an even better chance of seeing it and responding vigorously.” Vigorously? Is that good or bad?
Sorry I don’t want to suffer severe illness to get effects that the vaccine can do without almost killing me. YMMV.
“The good news so far is that, unlike the situation for the common cold, we have now developed multiple COVID-19 vaccines. The evidence continues to suggest that acquired immunity from vaccines still offers substantial protection against the new variants now circulating around the globe.”
So….???
@Scott321 So you are happy with a "vaccine" which manipulates human cells to produce the spike protein which hoodwink our immune system into producing antibodies which MIGHT resist COVIT-19. That is your personal right. I do not share your compliance. It is antithetical to individual liberty to force compliance with your position on your fellow citizens.
@bbyrd009 Why does it seem you’re doing the “free stuff liberal” thing? I get flu shots under insurance. I work with the public including elderly people, so the flu shots are as much duty bound as self-serving. And the COVID shots that were free and the boosters a few months from now ensure I don’t wind up in a hospital bed taking up space preventing others from that room and costing money to the system as a whole. The antivaxxers are the true freeloaders causing others to pay the price for their Braveheart freedom scream. Some orphan their children.
My “free” shots are coming from a place of personal responsibility. I guess only sheep have heartfelt concerns for themselves and others. Or sheep are easily duped into really bad judgment calls ranging from avoiding protective vaccines to using ivermectin instead.
@PBuck0145 It’s antithetical to personal liberty to stop at a red light. Also in libertarian parlance we get the nonaggression argument. Unmasked antivaxxers are the equivalent of someone recklessly brandishing a firearm at me with the safety off. Not even the most radical 2nd amendment aficionado would find that behavior acceptable. Spewing infective particles in my general direction is an act of blatant aggression. My vaccinations act as a bulletproof vest, but the spewer or shooter can’t be expected to know I’m protected and intent counts.
Taking the 2nd amendment to further extremes as a thought experiment we get castle doctrine and standing ground against the potential of COVID death. See where excessive freedom winds up? Crazy extremes.
@PBuck0145 Do you know what scoring an own goal is? Because your own wiki link says: “mRNA vaccines do not affect or reprogram DNA inside the cell. The synthetic mRNA fragment is a copy of the specific part of the viral RNA that carries the instructions to build the antigen of the virus (a protein spike, in the case of the main coronavirus mRNA vaccines), and is not related to human DNA. This misconception was circulated as the COVID-19 mRNA vaccines came to public prominence, and is considered a debunked conspiracy theory.”
Is that what you wanted me to read?
@PBuck0145 Immanent criticism is not false equivalence. I’m starting within a libertarian argument and ending with one that could be easily spun from an interpreted application of the 2nd amendment which I consider myself a moderate on.
And I hope despite your rhetoric here that you have or will get yourself vaccinated for your own protection and that of people you know. That hope transcends our personal differences.
@Scott321 it isnt really even a secret [vaccine-side-effects.com] except maybe an open one, and whatever one might imagine the government could be up to, the truth is way worse?
@Scott321 You deny that RNA is a component of our genetic code. Your position is that RNA modification is NOT genetic manipulation. You are passionate about your position and have every right to be so.
As for me: I am 76 years old, and therefore am highly susceptible to being harmed by the virus. My preference would be to take my chances contracting the virus and developing natural immunity, rather than submit myself to being an MRNA lab rat.
I agree with you totally about the vax argument, but I think you miss the point if you think that this site is especially to blame. The site just reflects the attitudes of the larger society as a whole, and indeed I would say that if anything, the debate on this site is more civil than the wider debate beyond.
It is true that there are perhaps some on here who would do well to hear your words, but I think that for the most part you are preaching to the converted, try not to judge the site by its lowest but loudest ten percent, however annoying they are.
@SpikeTalon Humour is nearly always cruel, in some ways the anti-vaxer joke has simply taken the place of the race joke. Because it is still, just, PC to mock members of some political groups.
@Fernapple To the extent that the rabid antivaxxers are unreachable anyway and some downright toxic and combative with their rhetoric and actions I see the memes and other mockery as retributively apt and in some cases justified.
There are reachable people on the fence who aren’t in our face yelling masklessly and they need a gentler touch.
Thank you! Insight, patience, and dialogue go a long way in all aspects of life.
@SpikeTalon An actively toxic portion of one side is an actual walking public health threat (aka plague rats) and proud of it. They are an unreachable lost cause. My violin is tinier per self-inflicted repercussions but my empathy increases greatly for those they impact.
The other side of the argument has been cautious for well over a year, heeding directives from the CDC, and got their shots ASAP. As far as the two wrongs goes the two sides are far from morally equivalent. One tries its hardest to score an own goal and take the team down with them. Their potential deaths or debilitation is not what I want to see but that certain memes have a dark humor pointing out such avoidable consequences merely enhances their well placed sting. Plus they speak to an understandable sense of frustration. I saw one recently with the Sixth Sense kid in a car with antivax protestors in the backdrop. I find that quite apt. Sorry.
There are reachable people and the memes or heated rhetoric shouldn’t be intended for them.
@SpikeTalon makes it pretty obvious where the truth more likely is, too, imo…
if you have to be manipulated, coerced, cajoled, incentivized, and denigrated to do something, it is never in your best interest i guess
I see your point, but the truth of the matter is that many of us have given up on the antivaxxed on this site and have accepted the fact that they aren't going to change. That being said, the false information they post is alarming. We attempted to contact admin about it and have false information about infectious diseases deleted before it kills us all. Admin has left the building. Sometimes you just have to know when people and situations aren't going to change. I say to our front-line workers who are risking their lives daily to keep the antivaxxed crowd alive: that we see them, support them, and are there for them. Some of the antivaxxed attack us, we just don't fall to pieces over it. If you can't handle a titantic meme, maybe social media isn't for you. There are plenty of memes that are insulting to me, I don't cry or whine about them. I move on to the next post.
The point was never to attempt to convert the unconvertible. The point of the memes is to show our medical staff that they are not alone.
@SpikeTalon I think we need to establish "What is offensive to anti-vaxxers?" Just as we had to establish "What is exploitation?" back in the day.
Am I approved to make this post?
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or how about this one?
What about this one?
@SpikeTalon Ok, I'll leave it there in the COVID-19 area as an example of "What Not to Do", but hopefully we can put it in progressive forums or humor forums. Or are we unable to share our humor with like-minded individuals?
@SpikeTalon Bonding with others who feel the same. It creates connections with people and brings us together.
@SpikeTalon l have a lot of scary conservative friends in my "echo chambers" on fb. Kind of a presumptuous thing to say. You don't know me at all and perhaps your mediating skills arent what you think they are.
@UrsiMajor After over a year of cray cray and more to come still I find your Titanic meme pointed at me and it helps blow off some steam. Will it convince someone to get vaccinated? Probably not. But some are so far down the anti-vax rabbit hole they are not going to listen to reasoned discussion either (unfortunately tragic).
@SpikeTalon Thank you. I have had to defriend conservatives when they threaten to kill my friends and family. I put up with way too much.
@SpikeTalon i am the leader of Anne Arundel Secular Humanists and recently backed by the AHA. I see your point that we have to be careful what we post. Maybe some of these posts should be PMs even on my personal fb page.
Spike . I understand what u say and this post is truly nice . I can’t see how can be done in action thou .
Not every mother has a spike son .
For me , at this point is personal .
In 17 months , I had maybe 17 nights off . Maybe .
I am tired . I seen spiders in my house . My plants are dead outside at back patio , my dogs are sad , and I am sad . I haven’t seen my cardiologist for a year , and I get by w home ekgs at work . And for what ?
In hampton roads the numbers are hideous again . 18 beds x 4 units each , just for covid . Again . MICU full . ER full every night of it too . I am at work and just looked at my computer b4 I respond to this .
62 cases out of 73 tonight are unvaccinated .
Impatient and ER . I am tired . My patience is worth 0 as we speak and I am just tired man . Chasing tail for 17 months
I wholeheartedly agree and applaud your reasoned argument.
Kind of long, Spike, so I didn’t want to read it all. The noisiest anti-vaxxers are GOP politicians and media folk. They’re killing their own. Horse worming meds?
@SpikeTalon we've gone at them with reason for 8 months. All we get back is misinformation and conspiracy theories.
Good Post Talon
Saturday I dropped my kid off at his friends. I consider his parents to be friends. Scott jumped all over me about the vaccine. "It's poison. Designed to kill you !"
"You'll be dead in 2-3 years!" "I'll kill anyone that tries to stick me"
"Brain damage" "People are dying" "I know a nurse that refuses it!"
"I have the data"
ETC ETC
He never once asked me my thoughts....or if I was vaxxed.
I just asked a couple of questions....and had a beer with him.
(It's Bill gates and Jeff Bezos who want it!!" Why? "Population control !"
What about George Soros? "Yes, him too !" )
The usual suspects, it was a classic rant.
I left a little disturbed, but not surprised.
I'm not out to argue or change his mind on those same "Im right, you're wrong" terms either. But if he starts dumping this onto my kid and puts these fears into my boy and tries to drive a wedge between us, I'll perk up real fast.