I recently 'came out' as an atheist to my family, some of which are VERY religious, and so far no snide comments or problems. If they do: FUCK ' EM! #religionsarestupid

I just chuckle and say no. no no. If they ask why.....

Do you really feel that you need to mention atheism at the time of introduction? I would think that bit of information could wait until you know someone a bit more. What do you think?

I've lived in South Carolina for almost 20 years, and I don't think I've ever been asked what church I go to.

I don't worry about mentioning my personal history unless it is relevant in some conversation... I often say I belong to the "church of the Round" ... so the devil can't get me in a corner...

I just say I'm not religious. Very few people pursue it beyond that, but if they do, I will walk away.

Why do you need to tell somebody you are an atheist upon introduction? When I was a Methodist, that never came up for quite some time, if at all. Sounds to me like you are daring people to react negatively. If you are ASKED, you can tell them, but then you are not making a big deal out of it. Then if you get static, you know this person is not a good candidate for friendship.

I openly admit to being an atheist, and have done so for many years, in Kenya, Italy, UK and Spain. Most people accept it as being my prerogative. If I ever am told anything to do with hell and eternal damnation, I point out that atheists don't just not believe in god and a heaven, they also don't believe in hell - and anyway, I'll be dead so I won't know! That usually confounds all but the most fanatical.

Same thing in North Carolina.

I don't mention it unless someone practically forces the religion issue.

It isn't something I proffer upon meeting unless there's an obvious need to do so.
If someone asks I base my response on the adamancy of the moment.
Could be a laughing " I ain't religious " to a no doubts left behind " fuck off with that shit. "
It's pretty rare anyone ever asks me about it regardless where I've lived, far north or deep south though.

If it was business I wouldn't mention it.

If it was personal you just saved yourself from wasting a lot of time on someone, so it was good technique.