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I hate it when I'm just introducing myself to someone and I mention how I am an atheist. Only to get a lecture on how I'm going to hell for it. To clarify I live in Alabama which is extremely religious and often I get asked what church I go to.

Brandon9390 4 Apr 26
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I recently 'came out' as an atheist to my family, some of which are VERY religious, and so far no snide comments or problems. If they do: FUCK ' EM! #religionsarestupid

N7EIE Level 6 Apr 26, 2018
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I just chuckle and say no. no no. If they ask why.....

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Do you really feel that you need to mention atheism at the time of introduction? I would think that bit of information could wait until you know someone a bit more. What do you think?

I don't mention it unless they ask what church I go to.

@Brandon9390 OK, that makes more sense.

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Below the bible belt really sucks, or so I hear. No one passeth judgment on you here though.

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I've lived in South Carolina for almost 20 years, and I don't think I've ever been asked what church I go to.

dkp93 Level 8 Apr 26, 2018
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I don't worry about mentioning my personal history unless it is relevant in some conversation... I often say I belong to the "church of the Round" ... so the devil can't get me in a corner...

blzjz Level 7 Apr 26, 2018
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I just say I'm not religious. Very few people pursue it beyond that, but if they do, I will walk away.

marga Level 7 Apr 26, 2018
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Why do you need to tell somebody you are an atheist upon introduction? When I was a Methodist, that never came up for quite some time, if at all. Sounds to me like you are daring people to react negatively. If you are ASKED, you can tell them, but then you are not making a big deal out of it. Then if you get static, you know this person is not a good candidate for friendship.

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I openly admit to being an atheist, and have done so for many years, in Kenya, Italy, UK and Spain. Most people accept it as being my prerogative. If I ever am told anything to do with hell and eternal damnation, I point out that atheists don't just not believe in god and a heaven, they also don't believe in hell - and anyway, I'll be dead so I won't know! That usually confounds all but the most fanatical.

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Same thing in North Carolina.

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I don't mention it unless someone practically forces the religion issue.

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It isn't something I proffer upon meeting unless there's an obvious need to do so.
If someone asks I base my response on the adamancy of the moment.
Could be a laughing " I ain't religious " to a no doubts left behind " fuck off with that shit. "
It's pretty rare anyone ever asks me about it regardless where I've lived, far north or deep south though.

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If it was business I wouldn't mention it.

If it was personal you just saved yourself from wasting a lot of time on someone, so it was good technique.

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