What are women really attracted to?
CHOCOLATE. If you want to attract one, just stand around with chocolate.
Lols
Genius !! I am setting up a dustbin with the lid propped open but weighted later; filled with chocolate !!!
@Nickbeee See you soon!
Depends on the woman, just like with a man it depends on the man.
Iβve heard women say they just canβt find a nice decent man. Looking around, all I see are nice decent men, and most of them are single. The difficult, edgy, cocky, arrogant men seem to have no trouble finding decent women. Thatβs why I wanted a womanβs point of view on this.
The male voice.
Richard Burton, Sean Connery, Morgan Freeman, Alan Rickman, Antonio Banderas, James Mason, Hugh Laurie, Liam Neeson, Hugh Grant, Colin Firth, Stephen Fry, Idris Elba.
OK, hang on a minute, I need a sit down and a glass of water. Phew.
I lost all respect for Sean Connery after his talk of it being fine to slap women.
@MollyBell Not talking about respect here.
@GoldenDoll I'm personally not attracted at all to abusive men, no matter how handsome or suave they appear, but your opinion and feelings about Sean and his voice are valid, hon.
@MollyBell His voice is just one part of him - surely it's obvious that it's just a start - then you look at the rest of the package. My favourite is still Richard Burton.
@beansontoast - Oh gosh! 7 minutes of The Burton! I'll have to wait for a moment when I can dim the lights and get a glass of wine for this!
"Guys have been asking the question, 'What do women really want?' since the beginning of time- not because they want to know, but because the don't want to know. That's right. This is their big secret.
"There are many reasons for this. For one thing, guys get a lot of mileage out of playing dumb. The main reason guys will never admit to having even the teeniest clue about what women really want is because if the did, they'd have to do something about it.
"But as long as guys plead ignorance, they figure we'll continue to believe that they're just a bunch of well-meaning but bumbling doofuses who don't know any better.
"Sorry, boys. The jig is up."
From: "Women Who Run with the Poodles" by Barbara Graham.
Humor! And dancing! And in my case, beefy forearms.
@CK4RBE LOL! okay, and a tad more articulate!
This is what I think:
(Some of these overlap)
Status, power, emotional strength, a leader of other men, the ability to be a good provider, physical strength, appearance, grooming, sense of humour, intelligence.
A womanβs age does effect the order of importance of each of these. Young woman value appearance, strength and leader of other men higher than other things.
What attracts women is very much evolutionary.
I find many things attractive, a sense of humor, quick wit, intelligence, I have a weakness for long hair, musicians, builders, strong masculine hands, nice teeth and ambition. I have a strong personality so I prefer a man who is equally strong or stronger. I am introverted so I find extroverted men attractive. There's my wish list, now where's my Romeo??
Dam, I have short hair!
I think Iβll have to change the question to:
Do women know what theyβre attracted to in a man, or is it possible theyβre not really sure?
I don't know about most women but I know exactly what I want and what I am looking for.
@angelwings which is?
Many years ago Playboy Magazine had a survey asking that question. To the best of my memory women were attracted to money and power. I suppose it may be about security. However, this survey was many years ago and perhaps women's attitudes have changed since then. In addition the survey may have been skewed by the "playboy bunny" influence.
That certainly seems possible.@bonfirefromtx