I was raised in the Mormon church, and they are more concerned about appearances and not being embarrassed than they are about actual rape.

One of my nieces as a young teen was gang raped in the church building by a group of boys. She was pressured into keeping it quiet, because "Those boys needed to go on missions and raise families", and it would ruin their lives and their futures if she went to the authorities. Patriarchal religions tend to excuse any actions cone by males as "boys will be boys".

I have also read about tthe Mormon church covering up child sexual abuse involving adults. Usually rationalized as not wanting to break up families if a father or mother goes to prison.

Luckily for me, from a very young age I knew I did not fit or belong in that religion. When my oldest brother got a job where he worked on Sundays and did not have to go to church, I was just six, but formed a plan that when I turned sixteen, It'd get a job where I had to work on Sundays and would no longer hve to attend church services. Until then I just endured and tried to get along.

DOH! I came early again.

No, that's when you get to burn the old lady down the lane at the stake and seize her assets.