What Makes You Happy?
I have 5, 3 is marginal, it isn't what I live for. 6 as often as possible. I'd love to have 2, #1 would depend on how big it is. And #4, well with the right preparation I can do that now. It would be very satisfying to share it with someone but I don't do without just because I'm alone.
2, 5, 6 relationships, relationships, relationships!
4 is incredible when you get it
3 is a self-esteem builder
1 doesn't sound like it's all it's cracked up to being.
Me and my wife say this. We would like to try winning the lottery. Friends come and go.... youll see this when they start asking for money. Good Family is an illusion. Ive lived in the God father atmosphere... what a joke. Helping others do what? Others always needs money... not my advice. You got to live with your choices. Having a successful career.... goes to shit after a divorce. Ive been divorced 2 times. i know. Mind blowing sex is a pluss... but im old now. 5 other things have to change for that. So I'll take two #1's and a #2.
Sassy... look around. How many are just hopeful and how many are willing to step outside the box? I can here it now. Money will distroy you... lol. You want know till you have it. Might even make you more responsible. Think..think..think.. is my answer to life.
4-5-6
Wheres #1?
@BucketlistBob money has never interested me beyond paying the bills...
@NormCastle .... well ok... you ever been the boss and have people falling over themselves to be noticed. Wanting to be part of you? Whats the difference between your vehicle and a guy that has 10? You ever owned a yacht? You got a maid? You got a plane and a hanger? You havent lived until you set at the end of the table.
@BucketlistBob First answer, no I have never been the boss, but I have had people fall over me having sex. Difference on vehicle is, MY NAME is on the title of mine, not theirs...No yacht, no maid, no plane, no hanger, but as patriarch of my family I have sat at the end of the table as a youth, and head of the table as an adult !
@NormCastle .... well....ok.
“She decides to make a list of the things that make her happy. She writes ‘plum-blossom’ at the top of a piece of paper. Then she stares at the paper, unable to think of anything else. Eventually it begins to get dark.”
— Neil Gaiman
Edit: honestly, 2, 5, & 6 are probably the most important for me, though 4 is appreciated
I have 5, 3 is marginal, it isn't what I live for. 6 as often as possible. I'd love to have 2, #1 would depend on how big it is. And #4, well with the right preparation I can do that now. It would be very satisfying to share it with someone but I don't do without just because I'm alone.
Geeze.... ok... ill say it (1+4 ). Yeah... im being honest...lol.
I will say what makes me not you happy..... having little to call my own and being worried about that loss, realizing that needs of my soul had little to do with carnal necessities. So I am happy now with such a little human footprint despite my size 12.
#2 can also cover friends. Remember, one can chose their friends but one cannot chose their family.