Guys, you do realize that we receive notifications EACH time you visit our profiles? I'm considering a ten visit limit before you must make actual contact. ? Say hi at least.
I don't mind that.
I don't mind. I just wanted to let guys know we know. I actually went on a date with one of my repeat visitors recently and he wasn't aware that was the case.
@MarlaPaine
hmmmm.
I'd think they would be experiencing the same thing.
I actually had a visitor within 30ish miles the other day.
A visit doesn't automatically indicate romantic interest.
I don't think one or even two visits means romantic interest. These are guys who are coming to my profile once per day or every other day ten or more times.
@MarlaPaine That sounds a bit creepy
@MarlaPaine I don't see why you even care, if you're only here for community.
Curious why it's the guys part to contact ?
But yeah, I'll hit someones profile to see what else they've had to say about topics if something strikes that urge.
It's one thing I like about this site.
Click on somones profile, you see a variety of responses they've made.
I'm not suggesting itis. I've contacted guys I was interested in. Again, these are guys who are visiting 8+ times in just a couple of weeks.
More to the point, why does it matter when the person being viewed is not here for dating?
Yup, we realize that..... We get those too.....
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Sometimes I look at people's profiles to get a better variety of posts that have been commented on, because I find the same ones come up over and over on my feed. So it's not even about visiting the person. Sorry!
I do too. I'm talking about visiting 8+ times in just a couple of weeks.
Everyone visit Marla, but tip toe.
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@MarlaPaine loved you bio.
I don't mind people looking. Look all you want!. I do like your intro. Good idea with the bullets. (I think those dots are called bullets) Hey-hello!
I kind of would rather not know who visits and how many times they visit...it also makes me apprehensive to visit others profiles..
Yup, I'm careful about clicking on a profile too.
I had no idea that women get notified of every visit. Do men get notified the same way? I get alerts and posts, but is there a setting for visits?
That doesn't seem fair. We guys don't receive such notices. Besides, sometimes we are just curious. Also, maybe that would be an indication that you women need to be more assertive. Some guys are shy?!
I do receive those notifications. I know who and when watched my profile. Even stats of how many visitors I have since day one. You may want to check your settings
@IamNobody I must be doing something wrong because I don't seem to get them. is there a way to have that set up?
@JackPedigo I didn't set anything myself. I am using the Android phone app with Chrome..... I guess my settings by default do that
You can turn the notifications for it off
I like being notified and I'm not complaining. I just don't think everyone knows we can see this.
@Faithless1 Someone else said this could be turned off. I too could not find it. I wonder if those saying it can be turned off don't realize that it's not the usual Notification/Alert that we get via the Bell icon.
@bingst I turned mine off but i honestly don't recall how I did it
I always assume they read my posts or comments and run away??? that being said I do have one repeat visitor who's never interacted with me at all. He's been going back once or twice a week since February.