Seems our cats have similar looks!
I have a gray female named Bobbysocks she will be four years old this summer. She have now lived with me almost four years, she was a feral cat.
My gray male is Babysocks he is now three years old.
He was stolen off my porch at four weeks old, the end of April 2018.
He return the first of August 2018 with hie sister who has since disappeared.
I have another cat Mister Bent she is two years old a mixed fur cat!
Saw his sister get run over and killed, so I scooped her up and adopted her, she cam front a different group of cats several miles away.
All were feral, all have adopted me, they stay in at night. Babysocks and Mister Bent like to stay outside all day, then come in at night!
Bobbysocks stays in mostly except to go outside to sun herself daily!
The all sleep through the night, do not tear up the furniture or make messes. They are all spaded and neutered.
I have spaded and neutered five other cats in my neighborhood.
I feed three to six feral cats daily, alone with raccoons, possums, and skunks.
My cats wake me up at seven every morning, I then feed them, and they go outside. Coming in and out several times a day like little children.
Cats are differently paired with humans more than most realize.
By the way they usually come when I call them by name and to come in at night!

I can understand and fully comprehend your traumas.
After living and working on three continents. Been in numerous vehicle wrecks, airplane crashes, been shot down three time, been shot and stabbed over the last fifty five years I have been alive!!!

Good looking cat, sorry about all the crap you’ve been through. Glad you made it to tell the tale and wheel Sneaker around.

Cats are amazing.
Farms suck.
In Jr high we only had about two hundred rabbits.
Each had their own cage, I built the cages.
I also fed them watered them and shoveled their poop into a wheelbarrow and made piles.
So one day we have a flea outbreak.
An open 25 pound bag of malathion was out flea dip and we dipped every animal. That was some 200 rabbits, four dogs, four cats, fifty or so chickens, twelve ducks, six pheasants, and a growing herd of goats but I think we had about eight at the time.
All the animals took it well except a pekingese and two siamese cats, they didn’t make it.
We used three bags of malathion.