No I never have. I don't know if it's even possible. I just can't see myself being sexually attracted to a female. As attractive as it is to me, I'm just not wired that way.

@Kojaksmom - see a movie on Netflix called: Below her lips

@Our_existance this was my favorite scene from the movie called Frida.

@Kojaksmom - Women know women far better then men. I see why you liked that scene

But do you find that it's easier to relate to your own sex? For instance I don't have kids I don't want kids. But if I did have a child I would hope that I would have a daughter. I can relate to a female and their problems but I can't relate to a male and their problems and point of view.

@Kojaksmom I do. There’s that familiarity and connection. But there’s the same jealousy, infidelity, etc.

@Sydland oh ok

That's true. Perhaps it is just another example is the grass greener on the other side of life thing.

@Kojaksmom I think people just love to put everyone in boxes and assign attributes to them, but that is not how people are, or how life works.

@IAMGROOT when my husband was alive I helped him with a job at a lesbian couples house. Everything was in two's. Two chairs in the garden, two rocking chairs on the front porch, two chairs by the fish pond etc etc. She talked about all the things that she and her partner do together. for a fleeting moment I thought to myself ,damn I wish I was a lesbian. Lol! The overwhelming majority of women do not get treated like that in a heterosexual relationship