You gotta learn was doesn't work, before you can even fathom or appreciate what does. Most early relationships are trial and error. They may result in painful or embarrasing memories but they can also make the glue and cement that sustain or help a healthy relationship last. Don't look down on your mistakes, instead learn from them and appreciate each one for what it is. For they are what make you... well... You.

It's the old thing about women being attracted to a man and thinking " I can/will change him" and men being attracted to a woman and thinking "I hope she never changes". Guess what? She will.......and more than likely, he won't. Women go thru a "stage" where they are attracted to bad boys. The trick is to realize that it is - after all - just a phase. Go for it....have your fun....pray he doesn't slash your tires when you finally kick him out of your bed....and move on to the guy who is "rock solid". Will be there for you - thick and thin.

I think this site is exception to that some thoughtful women here

Easy women like excitement and badboy idiot's. If they find a college student. A kind family supporter. A religious bachelor. A nice guy well women say boring!

I was speaking with a good friend and she said that we end up with someone who continues a similar environment that we grew up in.

it must be a learned behavior.

It's frustrating you see someone you like and don't get a second look because you are a caring person I think I am not alone in this.many of the guys on this site have same problem . Most any woman here has many followers the men generally don't. These wonderful women are so gun shy they don't look at the good guys anymore. Guys how many have liked you?

Generally we attract some one who will support us in our insecurities, or we are basing our love on what we have seen what Love looks like around us.

This is why divorce is good for families with children when the parents are not a good match. Children get imprinted early on to expect the same in their future marriages. If dad was a dick, you'll chose a dick, etc. So split, find a good match and hopefully the kids will see a functional happy relationship.

It is the defect in humans to see only what we wish to see that ends in destruction.

From a man's perspective, maybe it's the whole, I can rescue her mentality and women saying, he'll change for me mindset. We are who we are, no rescuing needed nor will he change who he is for you.

Daily mail though?

Great question

Because they seem to want to punish themselves why I don't know . We good guys get left in the dirt because we care about them so we suffer while jerks benefit with pretty desirable women

interesting

Because you shouldnt date employees lol

I think this goes both ways. Good article.