My kids are the only people I know that don't suck ass I wish I only had to hang out with them

We don't need a lawyer cuz we're in agreement with everything she just doesn't want to spend the on the paralegal because we already have an open marriage and she wants to be on my insurance

@ActionBastard Time to re-plan your budget. Is she a working woman? The age of your kids is important; I read below that they’re 20 17 and 15 . The sooner you can work out a separation, the sooner you’ll get away from “feeling dead” Uncontested divorces are not that costly. If you both agree it’s time; then it’s one court appearance, and done. When you finally move in to that new apartment, and get one or more of the kids to hang with you on a regular basis...you’ll look back at this mess and say - “why did I wait so long”.!!

Instead of two beds I'll get two wifes like them mormons do it. I guess religion ain't all bullshit after all

I should of been more clear I think. My wife and I don't fight and we actually help each other out a lot and my our kids are cool with us getting a divorce, it's just financially hard because I can't afford to pay for two places. I live in LA and rent hear is hella expensive so I'm sad cuz I'm literally sleeping on the living room floor right now and I'm hella lonely. Dang talking about my feeling's so much makes me feel super gay which sucks cuz I'm already bi- sexual

@ActionBastard ah.. then your other option is to build or make your own room somehow , and date people who are accepting of your situation.. also possible.

@hippydog yeah I've tried dating already it just gets messy and it's always just about sex

@ActionBastard That gay comment is such a cop out. Ignoring the gay != masculine generalization I'll skip to the fact that you meant taking about your feelings somehow negates your masculiity. It's pretty ridiculous that is still a thing. I had a hell of a time finding support in my own life when I was ready to get out of my own marriage with an emotionally abusive woman. That fucking sucked.

@Sacrilege i took it more as a way of him "coming out" but making a joke about it.. we guys do that stuff lol

@Sacrilege "I had a hell of a time finding support in my own life when I was ready to get out of my own marriage"..
Hi five brother. Thankfully in my case i had my family.. friends were all "couple friends" and were mainly hers.

That's the point my kids are 20 17 and 15 so I don't think fighting for custody would be important. Hell in a few more years those bastards probably won't even want to hang with me anymore ?

Exactly.. here they make you take a short divorce course, which basically says that..

@ActionBastard your kids are old enough to handle the real world. do what works for you and your wife.

@ActionBastard so basically, you have not much holding you there. 15 is tough, but the other two are adults or close. Certainly all are old enough to handle the divorce.

Thanks I just wish I would of made this decision years ago

@ActionBastard Wisdom is always too late.

@germangirl90439 don’t beat yourself up. You did what you thought was best

There cool with it because my wife and I don't even sleep together anymore but I just felt why go through the and hassle of divorce if I'm still gonna be alone either way

@ActionBastard You will be alone until you're not. And you're more likely to be alone if you're still living in the same residence as her and married to her. There are nice women out there but most won't get involved with a guy in any kind of relationship, especially "separated".