I have found this in a friend from America and I also thought i would never find it with the piss poor quality of friends I had in the past. Once you find it, treasure and cherish it and don't fck it up, is my advice

I don’t have to always be first. But it’s nice to be first sometimes....and near the top at others.

That's actually funny. One of the guilt trips I had after my late partners death was the fact that whenever I went outside to work on a project she would call me to help her with a project of her own. After years of this I always got annoyed and said so. She knew me and just smiled and waited and I always came to her rescue. Literally, a couple of weeks before her diagnosis of a brain tumor she had asked me to help redo our garden beds. She had made the beds in the shape of a daisy with a central bed and 8 radiating petals. These beds were simply mounds of dirt and she said it wasn't working and thought we needed the beds made into raised beds. I saw this as a huge project and did my usual grousing. She was happy with simple rectangular beds but no I felt the shape needed to be maintained and built 3 double ended coffin shaped beds.

yes that is so very very true

It's a matter of priorities.

Now that you mention it.. neither have I.. huh. Wonder how I missed that one?

No doubt

I agree!!

I hope you experience it soon.

Yeah

sounds right

Always make time for people in your life .