Mmm so last night I put extra effort in and it was awesome with sprinkles! Made getting up at 5 am tough we arent in our 20's anymore. I do miss those crazy stupid days when we could get busy anytime anywhere.....secluded( prob not enough but we didnt get caugth) area at a Ren fair, the beach etc. Middle age is tough!
Hi Folks,
Lately, I have been hearing the word "Soulmate"
Very rarely have I heard men use this,almost exclusively women.
Urban dictionary was not very helpful a site called Personal Tao had a long definition. What do you all think about it below?
"Ten Signs of a Soulmate
A person you accept without thinking. There is a deep and unspoken respect between both of you.
You have chemistry of the body. Your instincts have kicked in to feel as if this person is your mate. When you touch this person, your body calms down into a deep peace.
You have chemistry of mind. You complete each other’s stories in life.
You have chemistry of spirit. Everything flows with smoothness.
Without knowing why you would die for and more importantly live for this person.
This person inspires you to improve yourself over time.
The conversation never gets old between the two of you.
You feel no need to control or limit this person. Soulmates don’t limit each other, which means this is a judgment-free relationship.
A person you can let go of gracefully
Perfect timing.
Soulmates are not unique. In my work, I have discovered that a soulmate is a 1 in a 50,000 relationship. So it’s a rare relationship, but not so rare to be impossible.
An older/deeper committed relationship that feels to be soulmate up front can fail the soulmate tests later in life. This is for two reasons.
Modern culture teaches partners to force a relationship to fit stereotypes rather than allowing each partner to grow over time naturally. This means people do get many false positives from their feelings and needs, or by forcing the signs.
People can change quite a bit over time.
One truth: a person will be most likely to find a soulmate when they are in a strong, confident place. People seeking soulmates as a solution to their life problems will not find their soulmate. This is because the problem at hand itself skews your perception to look for the wrong qualities in a partner. This means that bad timing can and does prevent a person from meeting their soulmate in our life."
Sounds good to me. One more for the Gipper
No shit not for the faint of heart getting old is tough
When I get old.... just kill me!