That's great advice if you have the opportunity to implement it. I guess you would need to have some kind of relationship before this comes into play.
Unfortunately, this is a lesson that needs to be remembered. It can strike at any time.
My first husband refused to talk about sex. To him it was a taboo subject. Looking back I can tell you that the forced lack of communication played a major role in our breakup.
Absolutely!
@mischl I was young...now you tell me!! And you are correct.
@EyesThatSmile You're still young. Just a lot more experienced.
Was he the 'strong, silent' type.To me a relationship without communication is no relationship. My 2nd partner was alcoholic but was sober 5 wonderful years. When she relapsed the communication broke down and she said we needed counseling. We did go and the counselor said even though his job is about communication even he often has glitches with his wife. He called me and said the issue was not communication. My late partner was a master at communication and if something was bothering me she wanted us to talk, "now". It took some getting used to but I did.
@JackPedigo Not the strong silent type. Although we didn’t go to church, he liked to quote the Bible, was sure he was head of the house because god said so and thought sex was a taboo subject. He was manipulative and had anger issues.
@EyesThatSmile Does not seem a good relationship at all, and am sorry people have to go through this. My first marriage also had problems but different than yours. Things improved with each passing relationship. It's called evolution. My last involved 2 months on the phone and then off and on visits over 8 months (long distance). That 'getting to know' one another made all the difference. People need to be compatible and have commonalities. There also has to be a balance of give and take and, above all, communication is paramount. I have experienced a wonderfully happy and loving relationship and it would be hard to settle for anything less!!
The quote is on point . Oftentimes people just fall back into the a similar situation. Until we identify our own issues it’s really difficult to have a fulfilling relationship. Most of the time attachment is the basis of the relationship.
Bad relationships raise our awareness and test how much we are willing to put up with for love..
Posted by UnitySomeday my princess will appear before me. ❤️
Posted by AtheistPeace666Hello I'm a single Canuck looking for my special lady Canuck.
Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?
Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.
Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.
Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.
Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.
Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....
Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.
Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.
Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.
Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?
Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.
Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?
Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.
Posted by Philip21over the top thinking? [agnostic.com]