I have been guilty of this! It certainly seems like the easier route to take.
"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love." ~ Tom Robbins
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Do you people realise how lucky you are to have CHOICES?
BitFlipper
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Aug 28, 2019
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I have found that a relationship will only work where there is a high degree of compatibility in: interests, ideals, intelligence and sex drive (or lack thereof).
Any significant mismatch of these will cause tensions, which cannot always be compromised upon. One has to accept that trying to 'make it work' is not always possible, and settling for second best can be disastrous.
Magister
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Aug 28, 2019
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the two people involved must decide together what each one needs
TheDoubter
Level 9
Aug 27, 2019
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What is the perfect love? I think it's different for everybody. I sure know what it means for me.
JackPedigo
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Aug 27, 2019
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Is this meant specifically to sex? OR is it more encompassing than that when it says "lover"?? 
demifeministgal
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