I previously posted about my recent breakup. As a post menopausal woman aho doesn't really want to take hormone replacement therapy, but who loves kissing and cuddling, l just want to ask the guys out there...are any of you out there in the same boat sexually?
Coitus is not the only path for lovers seeking satisfying bliss....orgasm is a great pain relieving flash of naturally produced endorphins encaphalins....people our age need moments away from chronic pain management....lovers can massage kiss tickle and warm each other when they decide to be lifelong mates and caregivers ....I know happy couples in their 90's still swimming bicycling and kayaking to secluded sandbars for open air love making....and sadly I know too many people my age in wheelchairs wasting life reading bible verses against fornication....freedom to choose, eh ?
I went through this with my ex. With her it was passion one week and nothing the next with no explanation other than "our marriage has changed." What sank us was probably not the stepping away from that element of our intimacy, but the absolute lack of communication and discussion about alternatives. I think (because she never said specifically) it was related to vagina pain and dryness. There was also a characterization of love making as un-clean and bothersome. Marriage is kind of a contract and if you want to or have to make major changes it needs to be with communication and some level of negotiation. I fully understand that is sometimes impossible for some, but that is also where it all falls apart.
I went through a phase where I was stressed , bad divorce, just totally messed up my adult children and I lost my drive . I had some ladies wanting to do things and I had to adapt to get them off and not be embarrassed. Eventually however I started taking Maca powder from health works because it was said to balance out hormones, about three months in my mood started changing, my drive and stamina picked back up and I am feeling good. Someone close to me is going through a similar situation ( female) menopause, it’s been tough for her but if you find the right guy it can work , don’t give up on companionship. Try looking into some ways to naturally change your direction not just for sex but Overall well being.
Awesome! Glad for you!
Yep, all I want at this point is to have someone to
Cuddle with when I go to sleep. If more happens, then it does. Not an expectation at this point in my life..
Aging is catastrophic on sex drive. Men need Cialis or Viagra...women need hormones...to "maintain the sexual adventures" we enjoyed commonly - what seems like just a few years ago.
You simply have to weigh the merits of keeping your active (intercourse) intimacy in tact - or switch to a non-intercourse "intimacy" that works for you and your partner.
It's a tough call...and varies from day to day, person to person.
The keys - the most important issues, IMO, is staying flexible, open, and healthy.
Not necessarily catastrophic. Do a little cardio, keep your testosterone level high, use trimix if necessary. Enter the swinger lifestyle, make new and interesting sexy friends all the time!
I love kissing and cuddling too! It would be much better than having no contact at all. As far as sex goes, I've pretty much forgotten what it's like, so I might be in the same boat with you.
There is a fine bible verse: " if 2 shall not lie down together, how shall ye have heat ? " the conclusion page of Ben Edward Ackerley author X-RATED bible all King James bible citations, American Atheist Press 1985
I don't mind keeping each other warm.
Sidenafil citrate is not a hormone but if that is the object of your sexually boat question the answer is somewhat yes due to a low ventricle ejection fraction.... I am told women benefit from blue pills similar to men because of the warm feeling and body fluids drawn down to the bottom of a pelvis....however oral mutual stimulation costs nothing totally free of charge and be more enjoyable than vigorous lubricated coitus....actually most post menopausal women report IMPROVED AND satisfying climax without fear of ovulation and pregnancy
One thing most always leads to another, not 100% of the time, but enough to make me believe what l just typed.
Well, l guess time will tell if ever l do meet another partner.
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Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.
Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.
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