What do you consider true romance? I like old fashioned wooing. There's a saying that seduction is getting someone to do what they secretly desire. At best, it feels selfish and goal oriented to me, if it's also dishonest it's just low. I don't believe in sin but telling someone you love them just to use them is pretty close. I think wooing is building someone up, making them feel wonderful about life and themselves and letting them know that they matter. It has to have a spirit of generosity. If they feel that way in return, you've just won it all.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I don't understand the concept of "true" romance. Are you asking what one considers to be romantic?
If so, I think it's a good question. It means different things to different people which is part of the answer. Being romantic, in my opinion, is doing things for someone that mean something to them, not you personally. For example, one women may like poems and flowers. Another may find it romantic when she finds you've fixed a shelf without her asking, or if you pack her lunch for tomorrow, because she's tired after a long day.
It might be safe to say that all women find it romantic when you stop to listen to what she is saying or asking.
Athena
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May 30, 2018
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Absolutely agree, and as theskeptic clarified for me, this post is more about pursuit. The soul of romance is that you're in it together and share the vision. Listening is crucial.
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Mike1947
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May 23, 2018
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I would love to be wooed in an old fashioned way. And woo them in return.
Now it’s just about hooking up
Marcie1974
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May 23, 2018
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It's what you make it to be.
Texting,e mailing,google hangouts, and other means I believe let's the person you've shown interest in know your inner thoughts,want's desires,and wishes well, before the physical meeting takes place.
Finding out favorite foods,eating places,music,likes,dislikes and maybe goals,isn't dating sizing up potential mates?
Mike1947
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May 23, 2018
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