I didn't know that Valentine's Day would hit me so hard. I keep seeing his eyes, his so beautiful eyes that looked at me with so much love. I miss him so much.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.My late partner and I didn't celebrate holidays. Every day should be valentines day for some.
JackPedigo
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Feb 14, 2022
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He always made sure I knew that he loved me and made me a priority. He knew how to make me laugh when I was down and always let me know he appreciated me. Holidays, he went the extra mile with little things, something I may have mentioned months earlier and it would magically show up to mark the day and make it all the more special. That's what makes the holidays so hard and incredibly sad. I miss those moments so so much.
@Betty One area that is seldom mentioned but often is the cause of many break-ups is money. We made a vow of financial fidelity. I had inherited some money (but this was our money not just mine). I wanted to use some of it to join FFRF at the 'after-life' level ($5,000) but didn't know how she would feel. Some time later it was my birthday and she mentioned she wanted to give me the level as a present but as it was over our agreed on limit ($400) she didn't. We both had the same thought but were slow in expressing it.
@JackPedigo It felt so good to know that I was always on him mind and he always by showing me with little things, and it's those little things that I miss so much. Those moments that would elicit an embrace of pure love. There is an emptiness that is so vast, I don't know if it will ever fill again.
Days like this are triggers for sure. Feel your pain and loss
bookofmorons
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Feb 14, 2022
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Thank you.
These special days are difficult to get through for many of us. I was thinking and remembering how my darling Richard would make V-Day so special for me. Holding on to the memories are comforting. 
Redheadedgammy
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Feb 14, 2022
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Maybe some day they will be comforting. I'm just not there.
@Betty It will be 4 years this June that I lost my husband. It has become a little easier for me, but still hard to know he’s gone. I think in time we will be better able to cope, with fewer tears each year.
@Redheadedgammy I hope so.
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