Tomorrows my birthday. Not looking for wishes. Just as I think I am ok a birthday comes along and makes me want to cry. No not because I'm older. Just that it remindedmed of the second without hubby. I thought birthdays come around fast but all milestones do.
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I encourage folks to remember their mommys she called me her little squirt on those days ...I am 4th of 5 for her squirting out fetal & placental things out birth canals. ...no Caesarian for her
GreenAtheist
Level 8
Dec 1, 2018
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I hope you celebrate your special life on your birthday and will remember all the times your hubby was with you for that special day. It seems like birthdays and holidays are pretty hard for many of us when we lose our partners. Be kind to yourself.
Redheadedgammy
Level 9
Dec 1, 2018
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I will. Celebrating me and having him in my life
I am so jealous of those beloved men and adored by great women. ...I miss all the plans Teri and I made 2017. ...I miss my first son in law made my daughter a widow for 3 years. ..she married again and Eric adopted her 2 half nephews. ...not my grandchildren then....my ex never taught her 2nd daughter anything but astrology. ..fucked up the girl for life. ...1st baby died age 7 days too stoopid to know blue babies ARE NOT PRETTY they lack oxygen. ...never read a single book in school or from her social worker. ...just listened to "her spirit guides"....religion kills no matter which one
i lost my wife 3 years ago, but the anniversary always stirs memories. by the way: happy birthday
TheDoubter
Level 9
Dec 1, 2018
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Thank you
I lost my girlfriend Sonia to cancer this year,and I am not looking forward to this time of the year?
WayneDalton
Level 8
Dec 1, 2018
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First year us tough. We are here if you need to chat. My husband had cancer as well.
My neighbor, a woman, will be 88 soon. After a bad marriage she is glad to be alone. She is very independent and her car goes up and down her driveway all day long. She is one of the most active persons I know. Her adult son and his two adult kids live close by and she gets to spend time with family and he helps her with some household chores but mostly she is on her own.
JackPedigo
Level 9
Dec 1, 2018
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I am very independent. Does not make feelings stop.
@Rose2U Of course not but being idle only makes the feelings stronger. We need distractions and activity in our lives.
@JackPedigo I agree. Working on it