Both very good points. Thank you for commenting.

I ended up using Tinder as actual tinder and burned up my phone after trying it for a week. I'm sorry you had that experience though - you are an hilarious, thought-provoking charmer, and I can only hope to sound half as clever.

@PolyWolf I agree...the men seem to be more themselves and are quite charming, respectful and yet naughty at times...we all have a good time even if the relationships end up just as friends...one can't say that about a lot of other sites. People are nice here. J is a clever one...happy to call him a friend.

@thinktwice @PolyWolf Stop it with the kind words! You're going to make me blush!☺

@JeremyTaylor That's my hope. I'm trying to approach life differently lately. Basically, while I haven't really ever been too toxically masculine, I haven't really done much to stop it. I've realized I need to if I'm going to help at all, so while most men aren't used to getting compliments (myself included), that doesn't mean I can't give them to men also. Of course, it helps I'm slightly bi, but that's not even playing a part: I genuinely find your cleverness to be beautiful, and inspiring.

@PolyWolf Though I am straight as the day is long, I can certainly appreciate a well intended compliment. So thank you for the kind words.?

I can also appreciate your efforts to take a different tact in life and stymie toxic masculinity as you can. It takes a certain courage to confront and callout such behavior, so thank you for that.?

From what I recall of the random comments I've seen you make, you are quite a clearheaded thinker, so that compliment means even more to me. Thank you.

You are stunningly beautiful, and I love the comments of yours that I've randomly seen.

@PolyWolf methinks you are one brownie over your limit, but thanks!

@AnneWimsey Ha. I am not, but that may be my favorite new phrase, thank you. ? I genuinely meant what I said.

@PolyWolf well, hellloooo, sailor. I love going to Amish country in the RV.....just sayin, Philly is kind of on the way, no?

@AnneWimsey I wish! Amish country is more toward the center and northern parts of the state, from my understanding, though I could well be wrong. Philly is to the south east. I love where your head is at though. ?

@PolyWolf I actually go to Lancaster, southeastern end.....

Well, while that certainly is a possibility, I'm definitely not above being shallow. It's a good point for sure though, because I have more respect for people I can reasonably believe have thought through life a little bit.