And you ask this in the silly forum? mmmm

Do the things he never cared about doing! So much more fun when not dragging a "sourpuss"!

I'm sure you liked things before you were married, try those again.

Also [bfy.tw]

Take it easy. Find enjoyment in conversations. Some experts say no serious starts for at least one month per year together in your last relationship/marriage, what ever that means. Best wishes.

Take some time OFF before becoming active on the dating scene.

No glove. No love.
No cover. No lover.

Relax, look at your life and decide if there are things you want to do right now or do you want to just observe for a while. I didn't get a chance to do that as I was propelled right into caring for my 90 year old mother as my sister was just then diagnosed with breast cancer. Would have loved to be able to relax and make some planned decisions.

In my experience (when I was actively dating during my seperation)
Most try lots of sex with random people OR because they didnt get rid of past baggage end up in unhealthy relationships.