I would imagine that it would depend on personality and what stage he is in life.

A good foundation in a relationship in my opinion is essential. Honest and consistent communication encourages respect and builds trust. I appreciated that in my relationship, we were each other's safe place. To me, that is peace.

While I tend to think that's a main reason for that, I also think money and perhaps even status etc. also would factor into that equation. Depends largely upon the individual in question, and individuals have varying motivations.

That aside, for me personally, a sense of peace and stability would factor heavily into that.

I have heard that from a number of guys on reddit, who say that a big thing they are seeking from dating is women who bring peace to their life, whatever that means. My take on it is that they mean something that is the opposite of women who bring drama or high maintainence demands into their life..

There are a lot of people who find the tranquility of peace to be boring. I think it's a lot more complex than that, and it sometimes includes beauty, money and status ... perhaps it's more often someplace where we feel safe.

It was when he finally left that I understood peace. AND quiet!

Not all. There are many men who seek chaos and adventure. They join militias, become mercenaries, cops, spies or terrorists. Seeking to disturb the lives of those seeking peace.

Hey, U, is that Idris Elba ?? Great actor !!

I think that should apply equally to a woman. Peace and serenity in a relationship are definitely things to strive for. But, other factors should be in there along with peace. A good sense of humor, understanding, compatibility and attraction.