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The cats abandoned me. I took a five day trip to ocean City on the Olympic Peninsula (WA), and when I came back the cats no longer got in my lap, or slept with me at night. They have gravitated over to my sister and nephew... then again the cats do belong to them... still, now the only time they come to me is to tell me they want to be let in or out. I am just the door man to them and nothing more.... sigh.

I've been back about a week and a half and they don't seem to be warming back up to me.

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snytiger6 9

Answer 1

Well at least they allow you door duty...

Answer 2

Penance.....they will come back to you when you have suffered sufficiently....

Answer 3

Now you must grovel until they feel you sincerely regret abandoning them! Or just break out the catnip, treats, and fun cat toys.

Answer 4

You must be punished for leaving them.

Answer 5

Been there, bought the "my cat hates me" t-shirt. Don't worry, they'll love you again as soon as they've punished you enough

Answer 6

Do they follow you from room to room and then proceed to ignore you? Have you apologized? Ignore them back. They can't stand it. You have to do it like them though, First you get them to notice you, then you show them you are ignoring them

Answer 7

Cat's hold a grudge...Give it time!

Answer 8

Treat box - stat! Or catnip... that works too.

They're just not sure of your permanence right now so they don't want to invest in you until they are more certain of your longevity.

Maybe it's time to talk to them about vacations?

Answer 9

have you tried bathing in catnip?

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Answer 10

Yeah. You f***** up by leaving them for five days. That’s hard to forgive.


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