I just want to say that my membership in this group has helped me to understand some of the choices I have made in life and some of the difficulties I have faced. I have friends who have advised me to "just go out and meet new people," when they have no understanding of how hard that is for me. It is difficult to escape being lonely when you have a hard time meeting new people. But at least I no longer blame myself for being unable or unwilling to go out into unknown social situations and try to strike up conversations with total strangers. For YEARS I
have thought there was something wrong with me; now I know I am just different, albeit different in a way that is not well understood by the culture I live in. Thank you all for your insights.
I can relate. I know the struggle all too well.
I think there is a misidentification in society, and even in this group, that introversion and social anxiety are synonyms, which they absolutely are not. Case in point: the differences between my mother and myself. She is extremely extroverted and has to talk to people every day, or she isn't herself. She also has social anxiety and has gotten into a funk where she never leaves the house. In short, she's a mess. As for me, I need time alone every day to reset, but I'm competent and easy in company unless I'm put on the spot or unless I don't want to talk to you, in which case I just don't waste the time and energy. So maybe I'm not anxious, I'm just a bitch, who knows. ?
Posted by KilltheskyfairyIntrovert thoughts…
Posted by KilltheskyfairyIntrovert thoughts…
Posted by KilltheskyfairyIntrovert thoughts…
Posted by FrostyJim...we just don't get along well?
Posted by KilltheskyfairyWho gets dressed for that?
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Posted by Killtheskyfairy100% participation!
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Posted by KilltheskyfairyYep, I’d rather be home…
Posted by AppleriverTexting is always best
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