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I refuse to move my toys. When I die my kids will deal with it. I don't think they will be shocked, or care. As for my browser history.... again, I don't think they will be shocked. I have great kids.
HippieChick58
Level 9
June 21, 2018
2
They are no longer illegal as once they were. So why would I hide them. It is a perfectly safe & acceptable way to handle stress.
Mooolah
Level 8
June 21, 2018
5
Wow. I suspect I'll sound clueless but I had no idea sex toys were illegal. Dang.
@Lauren So was birth control until 1965. Oral copulation & other "alternative practices" were illegal in 48 states until the 1990's. The Supreme Court struck down all sodomy laws after 2 men were arrested in their Texas home engaging in private, adult, consensual sex. Arrested for being gay. Women were not permitted in taverns until after 1he 1940's. If one is not taught history, one will be "clueless". We must take responsibility for our own education or we will not know from whence we came.
@Countrywoman Thanks for the information! I've worked for gay rights a long time so I remember the importance of the sodomy charge with two gay men (plus I'm in Texas), and I knew about birth control which I've been fortunate to have access to my whole life, but I had no idea about the copulation and alternative practices laws. Geesh.
Put them on my casket before it's covered.
EdEarl
Level 8
June 21, 2018
4
Why not in?
@FrayedBear OK
What if they're OUR sex toys?
JackPedigo
Level 9
June 21, 2018
2
UUNJ:
That’s a different issue entirely. ?
My kids are adults. Grow up and deal with it..... now not then.
tryingcake
Level 7
June 21, 2018
2
On the BBC series “coupling” it’s referred to as a porn buddy. A friend who is agreed to go to your home upon your demise and remove all your porn before your relatives get there to look around.
Gonzogopher
Level 6
June 21, 2018
4
A good friend of mine did exactly that for his neighbour. Question is "what do you do if your neighbour turns out to have kiddie or snuff porn?"
IMO it has to be reported as there may be people wanting closure.
@FrayedBear absolutely!
That was the first thing I thought of when I saw this post, @Gonzogopher! I loved that series.
@Lauren Jeff’s truisms. They are horrible yet somehow a grain of either truth or kool Aid!
They don't want to touch my sex toys and wouldn't know what to do with about two thirds of them. I'd rather they all discover them at once and all be collectively shocked at what kind of deviant I really was. That's something that I can enjoy right now.
Wrytyr
Level 7
June 21, 2018
3
UUNJ:
LOL. Kids learn fast which drawers and cupboards to keep out of.
Maybe this is a difference between women and men, but my friends don't actually know about any toys I may or may not have...
They would probably be competing to split up my gun collection, though. That's men's toys.
Paul4747
Level 8
June 21, 2018
2
UUNJ:
Good point. There are men’s toys that cost about as much as a small gun, though.
Altough I live blocks away from an adult bookstore, I was, up till now unaware that there were male sex toys. I'd just prefer to misogynist and have living sex toys ............hmmmm ....last romp??........I walking over to the store.
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